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July 16th, 2008, 10:48 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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OMG  He will be here tomorrow right? Woohoo!  I guess we won't be hearing form you for a few days, huh? 
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July 16th, 2008, 10:59 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I hope not....
*cough cough*
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July 16th, 2008, 11:27 AM
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you girls are too funny!!!!!!!!! So he left earlier than he was supposed to so technically he is 2 hours away!!!! but he is going to his parents house tonight, and hanging out with the guys tomorrow night  guess im gonna have to learn to share lol. but friday night we are going out for sushi, then doing an all night movie fest, then sat going to the movies to see dark knight.
and yes he will be sleeping in my house....no sex or fooling around tho!
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July 16th, 2008, 11:27 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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July 16th, 2008, 12:00 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I was thinking that this morning! I was wondering how much we'd see of you for a couple days. I figured not today, due to last minute cleaning organizing, etc. Then I figured not over the weekend while you guys were hanging out. But then you better come back and update us!!!!!  )
And, uhhhhh, we'll see how that last statement holds up, come next week! 
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July 16th, 2008, 12:11 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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wait what?!!! did i miss something????
spill it eleysia!
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July 16th, 2008, 01:05 PM
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hahahah Herpers you crack me up i HAVE to have self control and so does he. it isnt an option right now lol.
Linda basically someone I've had feelings for (and vice versa) for nearly 10 years is getting stationed here, and gonna be living by me and we agreed we owe it to ourselves to finally give it a shot. so friday night will be our first date after waiting 9.5 years IM SO NERVOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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July 16th, 2008, 01:12 PM
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! i'm so happy for you! it'll be awesome. date night sounds fun, and you guys waited forever. update us!!!!
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July 16th, 2008, 01:15 PM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOh, I can't wait. That's so not fun to share though. I can't wait for the update Monday. Have so much fun girl!
cough, cough, just because you have to have self control doesn't mean you can't play....hehehehe
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July 16th, 2008, 01:32 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Awwww, I hope everything goes great for the 2 of you....even if 'self-control' leaves. B)
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July 16th, 2008, 02:02 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Describe what "self control" entails?  I know I've tried to have "self-control" before, and it never works out so well. Or maybe it does "work-out" well, depends on your point of view. And the reason for the need of self control is the situation w/ your ex? More than likely, you guys have waited so long that things may be awkward to start w/ and the need to take it slow will be to your advantage. Oooorrrrrr, there will be too much chemistry and history to put out the fire at all. 
As for the situation w/ booty-hole, screw him. Unless your being promiscuous, say w/ more than one person, what you do w/ one guy who has been your friend for 10 years isn't going to be any kind of problem in a court-type setting (how are they going to prove anything anyway, just keep things behind closed doors for now). I say, go where your heart leads you, and forget booty-hole (I've got more choice words for him, but I'm trying to stay G-rated).
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July 16th, 2008, 05:09 PM
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i dont know weather to laugh or blush. you ladies are too funny!!!
the self control thing is less chad and more of the fact that since we have 10 years of emotions built up we are trying to take everything hella slow to start with. we are both scared to rush into something since we have been waiting so long. we just dont wanna fudge anything up kwim?
dont get me wrong. ive had more "dreams" about this guy than i can count on one hand. much more than ive ever had about any one guy..ever. so the attraction is definatly there, for both of us. ive even gone so far as to ban us getting drunk together unless it is in a public place and we go our separete ways afterwards. yes.... it is that bad lmao. we both know if we drink it is on like donkey kong. god that would be great...er um i mean, it cant happen.
so yeah. he scared the crud outta me today though. he texted me asking if i was off work (at 3:30 when he knows i dont get off till 4) and asked what i was doing. I was like oh dear god please tell me youre not coming to my work. (how the heck would i react? my boss and everyone knows im still not divorced!!! and they work in the same office as me!!!) he said he was already there, then immediatly texted me that he was kidding. i about passed out. talk about nerve racking!! i told him id kill him if he ever did that again haha. what a terd!
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July 16th, 2008, 05:34 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I totally understand wanting to go slow! I'm in the process of "going slow" too.
I can't wait to get it on like Donkey Kong though!
If you two DON'T fool around this weekend, girl, you get a medal!
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July 16th, 2008, 07:25 PM
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Quote:
I totally understand wanting to go slow! I'm in the process of "going slow" too.
I can't wait to get it on like Donkey Kong though!
If you two DON'T fool around this weekend, girl, you get a medal! [/b]
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You guys are funny. AND I want to know where you are finding these guys to "go slow" with! I have been divorced 2 years and have yet to sleep with anyone...dam* it. God knows when I find that someone, I don't know if "going slow" is going to be in my vocabulary!!! Once I get past this who picky thing, watch out Omaha!! Amen, sister, to the Donkey Kong!!!
Keep us posted!!!
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July 16th, 2008, 07:33 PM
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You already know how I feel about this!!!
I can't wait for the juicy details.
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July 16th, 2008, 11:23 PM
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I hope you have a great time on your date hun!
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July 17th, 2008, 03:23 AM
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ok seriously i think i missed a huge update on you missy! 
i am really pleased all is going well though hun and you are going to give this a try. i wish you all the love and happiness in the world my darling.
as for self control.... sometimes its good to let your hair down
i totally understand taking it very slow, mark and i agreed to do the same when he came to visit but erm... yeah, that didnt actually happen! here we are a year later (almost) and trying for that sticky bean!
some things are just meant to be and EVERYTHING happens for a reason
xxx
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July 17th, 2008, 07:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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TeeHee!! I perfectly understand!! And no matter what happens, have a ball this weekend!!!!
Ignore me, I'm just really foreward!
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July 17th, 2008, 08:34 AM
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I officially think I have been gone from this board way too much! Look what I missed
 is all I gotta say!
WOOOOHOOOOOO
Okay I admit I am sex deprived at the moment...so I can live through you HEHE
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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July 17th, 2008, 08:57 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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No worries Herpers, I was talking to Jen last night and you definatly crack us up Im not offended or akward about any of it, i just think it is really funny.
Sarah, dont worry girly, you hav alot going on, and i know youre always there, same goes for me.
Lisa, thanks hunny  im soooooooo excited!!
Amy, youre taking the smart approach!!! Doner (forget the number) is a much better deal!! he wont ever show up late, or stand you up, or make you pay for anything!
Jess, you had better have that medal all ready to be presented to me but god knows if i give in you ladies will be the first to know.. well besides me and him i guess haha.
tai&kairi's mom, youre too sweet, thanks hun. lol about the self control!!
Jen, youre such the devils advocate! 
and that leaves Bobbie................you HAVE been gone too long girl!!!! I miss you and I ganging up and going nuts and making everyone else on here as crazy as we are  i want my Bobbie back!!!
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