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July 18th, 2008, 09:22 AM
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I think I wanted to get pregnant again to fill the void of the one I lost.
I don't think it would be fair to bring a child into our marriage right now, if ever. I have been pretending for so long that everthing is just peachy but I'm tired of pretending and trying to make everyone else happy - it's time to live for me. I'm too young to not be happy right? So, who knows where we will go from here, but, the TTC journey is over.

to the rest of you ladies and best wishes!
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July 18th, 2008, 09:37 AM
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oh sweetheart im so sorry.
i know exactly how you fell cos im having the same right now but i just wanted to say you have every right to be happy and enjoying life.
love you girl and please, dont leave us
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July 18th, 2008, 09:41 AM
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I'm pretty much in the same boat right now, we are no longer TTC because its not the right time to bring a baby into our lives. I hope that everything goes good for you and you get the outcome you want. Just remember we are all here for you!
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July 18th, 2008, 09:44 AM
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I'll be back to check in every now and then to see all those BFP's
But, I am positive that this is it for me. Sad part is, our anniversary is the end of this month, and I hate hate hate to hurt people (which is why I am where I am now) so I can't bear to break the news till then. However, I think we both know that we are unhappy.

GL to you ladies, and whatever you decide as well. Everyone deserves to be happy
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July 18th, 2008, 09:55 AM
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I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. I haven't been around much lately, so I'm sorry I did not know that things were not well with your dh. Hope you still come by and check with us once in a while. We are here for you if you need us. You do deserve to be happy.
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July 18th, 2008, 10:01 AM
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I'm so sorry for whatever you are going through. You do deserve to be happy. I hope everything works out the way you want it to.
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July 18th, 2008, 12:57 PM
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July 18th, 2008, 01:20 PM
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Hey Britney, do me a favor and dont stray too far. I really enjoy talking to ya girly



i swear we have nearly as many grils TTC as girls NOT TTC
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July 18th, 2008, 01:27 PM
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i swear we have nearly as many grils TTC as girls NOT TTC[/b]
Eleysia is right there are alot of girls not TTC here to, so your are welcome to stay!! Im sorry you are having troubles in your marrige.
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July 18th, 2008, 01:42 PM
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i swear we have nearly as many grils TTC as girls NOT TTC[/b]
Thanks girly - I enjoy talking to you too
I won't go too far - thanks for the support!
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July 18th, 2008, 01:52 PM
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Well you definately have to do what makes you happy and not everyone else. I commend you for doing what's best for you and not what's best for everyone else. You have to listen to your head and your heart and do what's right for you. I hope you will stick around and visit. You're always welcome. I hope that everything works out for you and that you enjoy every minute of life because that's what we all deserve. Good luck to you and please visit when you can. Hope you have a great weekend.
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July 18th, 2008, 05:03 PM
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Please don't feel like you have to leave.
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