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July 21st, 2008, 06:28 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I didn't think it was possible for me to have another "neutral" u/s....ahhh but it is. My baby has a nice strong heartbeat (130) but is not growing much at all. Measuring 6 weeks 2 days, and I should be 8 weeks on Thursday. Also, the gestational sac is a strange shape, pinched in on one end which is where the baby is....almost like the baby is stuck. So, for the 5th time this pregnancy......its not looking good, but it isn't definitely over. Also, they told me to stay on bedrest like I have been this week. I have a 2 year old! Sorry for the vent ladies....I am just emotionally exhausted.
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July 21st, 2008, 06:33 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Location: Tulare, CA
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I'm sorry girl your still in limbo! I'll keep praying for you that everything will be okay. Don't worry about venting here! We are all here to listen and offer kind words. :dothugs:
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July 21st, 2008, 06:36 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Florida
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Oh, Kelly... I'm sorry it wasn't better news for you. Like you said, it isn't over. I can't even imagine how hard it is to be on bedrest with a 2 year old. Feel free to vent as much as you need, girl. We are here for you. More prayers going up for you and your lil' bean. 
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July 21st, 2008, 06:59 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Look on the bright side of things, you baby is still there and its' heart is beating away. There is still hope because your baby is still fighting. Don't give up girl. There are so many people saying prayers for you and your baby. Don't feel bad about venting either. We all need to do it from time to time and I know it must be frustrating but Like I said, there is still a HB. That is wonderful news. I hope you get plenty of rest and try to take it easy even though I know that's hard to do with a toddler. When is your next U/S? Please KUP. You are definately in my thoughts and prayers.
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July 21st, 2008, 07:06 PM
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Super Mommy
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Location: Varnville, SC
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Kelly I am so sorry you are going through this. I wish I was close enough to come by and help out with things. I am praying for you!
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Proud Wife to Kevin~November 29, 2003(met October 24, 1998)
Proud Mommy of Kaisee Amber~March 3, 1998
Proud Mommy of Kameron Wesley~February 28, 2001
Proud Mommy of Kaiden Austin ~ August 3, 2009 (born 9 wks 3 day premature)
Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven~June 3, 2008
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July 21st, 2008, 07:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Rochester, NY
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UGH I am sorry  I will be praying hard for your bean. Miracles do happen.
Grow baby Grow!
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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July 21st, 2008, 07:38 PM
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Super Mommy
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I'm sorry you have to go through this waiting. I'll be praying for you and your baby bean.
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July 21st, 2008, 07:47 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Im sorry your still in limbo! I'll be praying for you and your little bean. When do you get another u/s?
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July 21st, 2008, 09:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Canada
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I'm sorry Kelly!!! I'm still praying for you!!
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July 22nd, 2008, 01:30 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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omg hun
i dont know whats worse, seeing a heartbeat but knowing something isnt right and you may still lose it or knowing there is no heartbeat.
im so sorry you are having to go through this sweetheart but i am praying for you
xx
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July 22nd, 2008, 05:19 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am sorry you didn't get better news at your u/s. I will be keeping you and your bean in my thoughts and prayers
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July 22nd, 2008, 05:20 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Kelly, you are still in my t&p. I hope everything turns out okay. We are always here for you. Don't lose hope!!! Like Bobbie said, Miracles do happen.
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July 22nd, 2008, 05:56 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Praying for you and your bean.
GROW BABY GROW!!!
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July 22nd, 2008, 06:33 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Nebraska
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Aww, poo! I'm so sorry you didn't get better news Kelly!! But hey, as the other girls have said, you're baby is in there and it's little heart is beating, and it's fighting away. Rest yourself, as much is possible w/ a toddler, and I hope your next u/s has better news for you! You and your little one will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers!!
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July 22nd, 2008, 09:51 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Kelly, I wish that they had given you better news. I really hope that your baby is going to be fine. Ill be waiting on updates, when is your next u/s? do you have another scheduled at all yet? Youll be in my T&P for sure, and try to rest as much as is possible with your daughter 
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July 22nd, 2008, 10:04 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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sorry for the iffy results. did the dr say what any of that could mean? let's hope it's just one of those wacky things and everything works out fine. <3
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July 22nd, 2008, 10:11 AM
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Super Mommy
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Good morning beautiful girl! I wonder why you didn't come over this morning so I can take care of Cori and you??? And bring the ice cream!
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TTC since 01/04
IUI 05/06 & 10/06 BFN
IUI 11/06 BFP!!! Labeled as chemical
12/06 clomid 50mg=INSANITY and OHSS
Decided to adopt 01/07
raced to the hospital to get our baby boy in August 2007, 12 days after we went "live" to adopt!
Mental break....ahhh. Mommy time....ahhhh. <3
Endometriosis surgery 01/16/09
Femara+IUI 03/09, 04/09, 05/09, 06/09 BFN's
07/09: mixture of acupuncture, herbs, hope, and prayers
09/2009~too much pain, had to go on BCP's.
06/10: Starting adoption process again!!!!!
10/13/10: Adoption paperwork done...now just pray and wait....
01/07/11 profiles turned into the adoption agency.
Matched April 1st, 2011 with a baby girl!
Cassidy born June 15, 2011
  
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July 22nd, 2008, 10:30 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Washington
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Thanks everyone. I have another ultrasound next Wednesday (the soonest they could fit me in ) The doc isn't saying much either way, which seems to be her standard response. All she said was, "I don't think we're out of the woods yet." Googling I've found a lot of women who have a heartbeat and are measuring behind....but it seems like most of those situations the heartbeat isn't strong.
By the way Tawny (my SIL), that is a very sneaky way to get my attention  .
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July 22nd, 2008, 11:42 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Pullman, WA
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Just had to let you know your family L~O~V~E~S and supports you. 
And I knew you'd get the message. 
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TTC since 01/04
IUI 05/06 & 10/06 BFN
IUI 11/06 BFP!!! Labeled as chemical
12/06 clomid 50mg=INSANITY and OHSS
Decided to adopt 01/07
raced to the hospital to get our baby boy in August 2007, 12 days after we went "live" to adopt!
Mental break....ahhh. Mommy time....ahhhh. <3
Endometriosis surgery 01/16/09
Femara+IUI 03/09, 04/09, 05/09, 06/09 BFN's
07/09: mixture of acupuncture, herbs, hope, and prayers
09/2009~too much pain, had to go on BCP's.
06/10: Starting adoption process again!!!!!
10/13/10: Adoption paperwork done...now just pray and wait....
01/07/11 profiles turned into the adoption agency.
Matched April 1st, 2011 with a baby girl!
Cassidy born June 15, 2011
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July 22nd, 2008, 07:24 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Varnville, SC
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Kelly I am praying for you and your little one.
Tawny that is very sweet of you.
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Nette MacNeir
Proud Wife to Kevin~November 29, 2003(met October 24, 1998)
Proud Mommy of Kaisee Amber~March 3, 1998
Proud Mommy of Kameron Wesley~February 28, 2001
Proud Mommy of Kaiden Austin ~ August 3, 2009 (born 9 wks 3 day premature)
Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven~June 3, 2008
Proud Mommy to Our Angel in Heaven ~March 2009 ~ Kaiden's Twin
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