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July 31st, 2008, 11:03 PM
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Im not sure if any of you have been around along enough to even remember me but i was here 2 years ago... give or take lol. i conceived in Jan. 07 and had a healthy lil girl in sept this past year. Well the first month TTC we conceived and we had very light postitive test.. something didn't really feel right and well a week ago I miscarried naturually. I was wondering if any of you have miscarried naturally early on and if you had a good success rate with getting your period back and not bleeding long. Yesterday I had some brown blood but that was it and today just brown mucas. We are hoping to get pregnant by christmas. So I am back ladies to help support you and hoping to see many of you get pregnant and those little beans to stick!! Wish me luck and lots of prayers! and help me know about this natural m/c. My first miscarriage we had a d&c
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July 31st, 2008, 11:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Washington
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Hi Kathryn,
I'm sorry for your loss. I'm Kelly and I've been here since March of this year. I've had two natural m/c in Feb and Mar of this year. My first was very early on (I knew I was pg for about 5 days) and was very much like a period. Doc told me I could TTC again w/o waiting. I ovulated 2 weeks after m/c and conceived again to m/c again fairly early. The second m/c was a bit heavier but still no problems for me. We waited to cycles after the second m/c to try again and both times my cycle was about 30 days. So for me, things went right back to normal. I hope it works that way for you as well!
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August 1st, 2008, 01:52 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Location: scotland uk
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hi kathryn im so sorry for your loss
i had 2 chemical pregnancies and was lucky enough to get my cycle back to normal straight away. if it hadnt been for the bfp and the slighly heavier bleeding for the first day or 2 i wouldnt have known. everyone is different though
i pray you can get your sticky bean soon hun and i look forward to seeing you post more on the great board
xx
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August 1st, 2008, 05:09 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I have not experienced miscarriages exactly so im afraid i cant help much in that department, but i just wanted to say how sorry i am for your loss x
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August 1st, 2008, 06:44 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a D&C so I am not sure about cycles after a natural m/c. Just wanted to say welcome back and I look forward to getting to know you, I've been posting here since Oct. 07 so I don't think you were around then.
Good luck.
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August 1st, 2008, 08:18 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Welcome back  Kathryn. I had a natural m/c my first loss. I bleed for about 1 week, spotted for the next, and 30 days after my loss started... AF showed  I had great luck with it. I didnt have bad cramping or anything. My first month post loss I dont know if i ovulated or not, but month 2 I got my BFP. Good luck hunny!!!
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August 1st, 2008, 08:46 AM
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just me
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I don't really have any advice for you, since my loss was much later. But good luck TTC again and baby  to you!
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August 1st, 2008, 08:56 AM
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Super Mommy
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I am so sorry. I had a natural miscarriage in June. I bled for 5 days and spotted 2 days. AF came exactly 28 days later and lasted 4 days.
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August 1st, 2008, 09:48 AM
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Welcome to TTCAL! I'm sorry for your loss  I've had 3 natural m/c's, i can't remember too much about my cycle with the first one since it was back in 2004, anyway with my m/c in Dec i was about almost 6 weeks and i bled for about a week, then O'd about 20 days after the first day of my m/c i got a BFP that cycle so i never got AF back, i m/c that baby in Jan, O'd that cycle on CD28 then got AF CD38. I was almost 7 weeks with that pregnancy so i think thats why it took a little longer to get back to normal.
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August 1st, 2008, 11:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 to the TTCAL board. I am sorry for your loss. I had a natural m/c right at 5 weeks and I bled for about 2 days. It took AF 55 days to show up afterwards though. AF was 4 days like it has always been and was back to normal. I believe that I ovulated because I started taking temps again after the m/c. It just took a while. I wish you lots of luck ttc again and I hope you get your BFP soon. Hope you stick around and join us. These ladies are all so wonderful. Hope you have a great weekend and I will keep you in my T&P's.
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August 1st, 2008, 02:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so very sorry for your loss
I have had 5 m/c 12w 6w 6w 17w 17w.
My 12w one was so long ago I dont recall whewn I got first af but I did get pg 3 cycle after.
I had d&c's after the 3 late losses for hemeraging.
Both my 6 w ones were like a heavy crampy bad af with clots and tissue. I bled about 1 week but it took about 6/7 weeks for af to return.
I got pg first cycle after first m/c at 6w and m/ced again 6w and got pg first cycle again only to m/c again this time at 17w pg
That time it took 7w weeks for first AF to show I got pg that cycle and had a healthy full term boy 10 months 3 weeks later.
I recently lost another baby at 17w and that has taken about 13 weeks of bleeding and spotting over and over before a real cycle with proper Oing. I think that was becouse I was induced with Cytotec in hosp but had baby vaginally with d&c after for hemeraging. I did not start m/c naturally like the other 4 times.
Good luck!
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August 1st, 2008, 02:37 PM
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Hi I do remember you. We were in the same DDC and I m/c in Feb 07. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. When I had my second m/c I did it naturally and I bled for about a week when I got my period. It was like a normal period for me. I hope that your TTC journey doesnt take to long and lots of  and  to you.
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