Symtoms of first cycle after loss

babyd28734 · #1 August 7th, 2008, 03:53 PM

Hi ladies was just wondering how long did you have signs of af before she showed her ugly face?
I have been having them for about a week now and its driving me crazy that everyday i think im going to start and then something. its just so frustrating when i want to start TTC already.
Sorry if this is TMI but having to use protection is a real mood killer and I dont feel really that much with it since ive had the miscarriage which is weird and I dont want to do anything without it just because if the possiblity that for some reason Im ovulating and dont know it and get pregnant before that first cyc;e we could miscarry again and i dont want that. I feel so bad for my Dh just because of everything that had been going on with me physocally with that pregnancy we havent really been able to do anything since may.
then losing the baby in june and having a d&c in july and him being gone for 3 weeks has been hard on us.
I mean we didnt do anything for 4 weeks after the d&c but now Im just ready to move on and get things started again soooo dang the witch needs to show her face now!!!! LOL

Sorry didnt mean to make it like a vent

NeeshBoogie · #2 August 7th, 2008, 04:03 PM

I sincerely hate when the witch plays games with me. When I was waiting for my first cycle after m/c, I had a bunch of pre-af signs that I had NEVER had before for about a week. This, of course, drove me nutso. BF was more scared to touch me because of my craziness than anything else. I'd say try to keep your mind off it, but doing that while waiting is close to impossible. Try not to let the frustration get to you in a bad way. Imagine the "tension" that's building as potential for a REALLY good thing once it's time to release, so to speak.

..Jessica.. · #3 August 7th, 2008, 09:16 PM

I don't remember to be honest with you, I hope you aren't in the waiting game too long!

jenn27 · #4 August 8th, 2008, 07:03 AM

I had AF symptoms for a little over a week. It drove me crazy to. I hated the waiting. It took 55 days after my m/c for AF to show. I hope she doesn't keep you waiting much longer and that you can get back to ttc. G/L and I hope you get your sticky BFP really soon.