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August 12th, 2008, 12:58 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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my 3rd ectopic this year  my test this morning is so faint (just like my ectopics before) im due for af tommorrow or thursday and with both ectopics i have bled about 2 days after she was due so i expect on friday/saturday it will begin  I know you probably think im being negative, but i know my body so well. My BFPs just arent getting dark quick enough and i have serious one sided cramping on my right as with both previous pregnancies. Im gonna try and not get to down about this, i expected it would happen anyhow and at least now the doctors might start running some tests  I dunno i just feel like im losing it already, i hate this.....Sorry to be so down
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August 12th, 2008, 01:59 AM
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heres todays with second MU im 11dpo now i let FF decide my o and i stopped over-riding it because it makes sense for AF to arrive thursday, not tommorow.

you see this right? i think tommorrow is definately digi day
do you think this is to faint for 11dpo (be honest please)
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Katt and Brett, with DS Tommy born July 4th 2005, DD Amber born Aug 19th 2009 and 4 baby angels
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August 12th, 2008, 04:09 AM
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Veteran
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hey hun, i used to post here and i still lurk nearly everyday, have been following your bfp this month.
i would say you are looking good, that is the first of them all ive opened and seen it straight off.
these are my tests from this pregnancy
closer up
id say yours were looking about the same, good luck!
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August 12th, 2008, 05:36 AM
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Hun, it is faint, but I see it!!! If you're only 11dpo you're still way early. It's not over yet hun. I know you're trying to be strong and prepare for the worst but some of those tests just aren't as good as they say they are.
and I agree that yours looks alot like Sams
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August 12th, 2008, 07:23 AM
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August 12th, 2008, 07:51 AM
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Kat, I dont want to give you false hope, but this is the first pic i can actually see the line in. So that means your HcG is going up. Keep in mind it takes 24-48 hours to double this early, then 72 in about a week or so. So if you look at it that way.... it might not have doubled yet, or like Rhonda (Mrs Poe) you might have a late bloomer. She had low-ish HcG in the beginning, and she is still happily pregnant with a healthy baby girl on the way. I hope the same bodes true for you too hunny.
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August 12th, 2008, 07:55 AM
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I agree it is still early. I understand your feelings though. But I am hoping and praying you will get a very dark line a few days!
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August 12th, 2008, 07:55 AM
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Kat, I dont want to give you false hope, but this is the first pic i can actually see the line in. So that means your HcG is going up. Keep in mind it takes 24-48 hours to double this early, then 72 in about a week or so. So if you look at it that way.... it might not have doubled yet, or like Rhonda (Mrs Poe) you might have a late bloomer. She had low-ish HcG in the beginning, and she is still happily pregnant with a healthy baby girl on the way. I hope the same bodes true for you too hunny.[/b]
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 This is the first one I've been able to see for sure too. I hope everything is okay. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. KUP!
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August 12th, 2008, 08:09 AM
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I have to agree with the ladies. Sometimes those IC tests are all different as far as the sensitivity. I say go out and get a FRER or use the digi tomorrow. This is the first one of your tests that I can see so it is getting darker. My little one gave me a hard time in the very beginning. My test was negative on 10dpo and pos on 12dpo but they were very faint. The digi picked it up the same day though. I think those CB digi is picking up less that 25 anymore since mine showed up.
So I just want to say congrats!! And I totally understand the fear after a loss. Its hard to set ourselves up for disappointment, but you have to stay positive for this little one. I think this is the baby you will be bringing home in just 9 months!!
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August 12th, 2008, 08:17 AM
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August 12th, 2008, 08:35 AM
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It is faint, but I definitely see it! It is still early, Kat. I think the line will start getting darker within the next few days, especially after Thursday.
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August 12th, 2008, 08:37 AM
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It is really early! I was never able to get a visible + until AFTER AF was due. I bet you'll get a dark BFP in a few days!
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August 12th, 2008, 08:47 AM
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Hun, that test is definatly darker then the last one! I don't think i even got a BFP until 12dpo, so 11dpo is quite early still. i think in a few days that line is gonna get super dark for you!
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August 12th, 2008, 09:21 AM
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I can see this one!  I would give it a few days then test or get a digi
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August 12th, 2008, 09:26 AM
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August 12th, 2008, 10:06 AM
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I didn't see it at all on the others, but I definitely see it this time!! Ditto to pretty much everything everyone else has already said.
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August 12th, 2008, 03:22 PM
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August 12th, 2008, 05:50 PM
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I hope you get darker lines soon!!
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August 13th, 2008, 12:39 AM
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Thanks everyone  Heres todays 12dpo fmu

Still faint but IRL it is getting darker, AF is due tommorrow
I guess if i had a 14 day LP like the 'norm' not 12, then it would probably be a pretty good BFP by the time af is due? Im not worried any more im just gonna wait and see what happens! Im a bit worried about work this weekend because it is so hard and busy in the hospital, i hope i can just get through the weekend with no bleeding and i will feel relaxed then KWIM?
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August 13th, 2008, 05:27 AM
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Here is my FRER of today (12dpo) with PM urine held in for just an hour!

I dunno, (dare i say this) im starting to feel a little more confident about this pregnancy! With my first ectopic i didnt get a bfp until 28DPO! and with my last 14DPO, so maybe just maybe this could really be it for us
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