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August 12th, 2008, 12:58 AM
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my 3rd ectopic this year my test this morning is so faint (just like my ectopics before) im due for af tommorrow or thursday and with both ectopics i have bled about 2 days after she was due so i expect on friday/saturday it will begin I know you probably think im being negative, but i know my body so well. My BFPs just arent getting dark quick enough and i have serious one sided cramping on my right as with both previous pregnancies. Im gonna try and not get to down about this, i expected it would happen anyhow and at least now the doctors might start running some tests I dunno i just feel like im losing it already, i hate this.....Sorry to be so down
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August 12th, 2008, 01:59 AM
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heres todays with second MU im 11dpo now i let FF decide my o and i stopped over-riding it because it makes sense for AF to arrive thursday, not tommorow.


you see this right? i think tommorrow is definately digi day

do you think this is to faint for 11dpo (be honest please)
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August 12th, 2008, 04:09 AM
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hey hun, i used to post here and i still lurk nearly everyday, have been following your bfp this month.
i would say you are looking good, that is the first of them all ive opened and seen it straight off.
these are my tests from this pregnancy



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id say yours were looking about the same, good luck!
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August 12th, 2008, 05:36 AM
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Hun, it is faint, but I see it!!! If you're only 11dpo you're still way early. It's not over yet hun. I know you're trying to be strong and prepare for the worst but some of those tests just aren't as good as they say they are.

and I agree that yours looks alot like Sams
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August 12th, 2008, 07:23 AM
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Don't give up hope yet. I do see a very faint line. It's still to early though. Give it a couple more days and then test. I would wait until AF is due. Just try to think positive. Sending lots of darker line your way. I hope in a couple days you have a nice dark BFP. I'm praying for ya girl.
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August 12th, 2008, 07:51 AM
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Kat, I dont want to give you false hope, but this is the first pic i can actually see the line in. So that means your HcG is going up. Keep in mind it takes 24-48 hours to double this early, then 72 in about a week or so. So if you look at it that way.... it might not have doubled yet, or like Rhonda (Mrs Poe) you might have a late bloomer. She had low-ish HcG in the beginning, and she is still happily pregnant with a healthy baby girl on the way. I hope the same bodes true for you too hunny.
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August 12th, 2008, 07:55 AM
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I agree it is still early. I understand your feelings though. But I am hoping and praying you will get a very dark line a few days!
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Kat, I dont want to give you false hope, but this is the first pic i can actually see the line in. So that means your HcG is going up. Keep in mind it takes 24-48 hours to double this early, then 72 in about a week or so. So if you look at it that way.... it might not have doubled yet, or like Rhonda (Mrs Poe) you might have a late bloomer. She had low-ish HcG in the beginning, and she is still happily pregnant with a healthy baby girl on the way. I hope the same bodes true for you too hunny.[/b]

This is the first one I've been able to see for sure too. I hope everything is okay. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. KUP!
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August 12th, 2008, 08:09 AM
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I have to agree with the ladies. Sometimes those IC tests are all different as far as the sensitivity. I say go out and get a FRER or use the digi tomorrow. This is the first one of your tests that I can see so it is getting darker. My little one gave me a hard time in the very beginning. My test was negative on 10dpo and pos on 12dpo but they were very faint. The digi picked it up the same day though. I think those CB digi is picking up less that 25 anymore since mine showed up.

So I just want to say congrats!! And I totally understand the fear after a loss. Its hard to set ourselves up for disappointment, but you have to stay positive for this little one. I think this is the baby you will be bringing home in just 9 months!!
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August 12th, 2008, 08:17 AM
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I can never see the positive line on those tests unless it's 16DPO or something. I don't like those tests at all. You are really early though. If you wait a few more days and then test with a FRER, I'm sure that line will be dark.

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August 12th, 2008, 08:35 AM
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It is faint, but I definitely see it! It is still early, Kat. I think the line will start getting darker within the next few days, especially after Thursday.

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It is really early! I was never able to get a visible + until AFTER AF was due. I bet you'll get a dark BFP in a few days!
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August 12th, 2008, 08:47 AM
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Hun, that test is definatly darker then the last one! I don't think i even got a BFP until 12dpo, so 11dpo is quite early still. i think in a few days that line is gonna get super dark for you!

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August 12th, 2008, 09:21 AM
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I can see this one! I would give it a few days then test or get a digi
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August 12th, 2008, 09:26 AM
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I can def see it in this one! I wasn't sure if i saw it on the IC the last time i thought i saw something. But i def see it this time. Lots of darker line and sticky dust coming your way!
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August 12th, 2008, 10:06 AM
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I didn't see it at all on the others, but I definitely see it this time!! Ditto to pretty much everything everyone else has already said.
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August 12th, 2008, 03:22 PM
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I agree with the other ladies. That line is more prominant in this test than in the other tests you have posted. you are still early. Congradulations again on your BFP!!!! I hope you see darker lines soon!! Here's some dust for darker lines:
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August 12th, 2008, 05:50 PM
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I hope you get darker lines soon!!
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August 13th, 2008, 12:39 AM
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Thanks everyone Heres todays 12dpo fmu

Still faint but IRL it is getting darker, AF is due tommorrow

I guess if i had a 14 day LP like the 'norm' not 12, then it would probably be a pretty good BFP by the time af is due? Im not worried any more im just gonna wait and see what happens! Im a bit worried about work this weekend because it is so hard and busy in the hospital, i hope i can just get through the weekend with no bleeding and i will feel relaxed then KWIM?
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August 13th, 2008, 05:27 AM
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Here is my FRER of today (12dpo) with PM urine held in for just an hour!

I dunno, (dare i say this) im starting to feel a little more confident about this pregnancy! With my first ectopic i didnt get a bfp until 28DPO! and with my last 14DPO, so maybe just maybe this could really be it for us
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