Well after the gym this afternoon I got in my truck to find a voice mail on my cell...it was my doc...so I tried her back at her office (yes she is an awesome doc and I have her direct office line AND her pager number!!) and luckily she was still there...
The genetics report revealed that our baby girl (yes she was a girl) had Mosaic Turner's Syndrome (45X/46XX)....this is where when the sperm and egg meet something goes wrong (the cause is unknown) and only some of the cells have a full 46 chromosomes and some only have 45...while most 45X pregnancies end in miscarriage the chances of a fullterm birth with 45X/46XX is higher...but this is only typical if the percentage is 90 to 10 (46XX to 45X)...I'm not sure what our babies count was, but whatever it was, it was something abnormal enought that my body naturally aborted (I hate that word but that is the *politically correct* wording)...
So far all of the research I have found doesn't have a cause...its just an abnormal splitting of the cells...any stats I've found show the chance of recurrence is "very small" as they put it...and they said it is not an inherited problem...(the "they" I speak of is all the different sites I've googled

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My doc put in a referral to speak with the genetic counselor so I imagine DH and I will be giving some blood samples (as will both of our boys probably)...hopefully the genetics department contacts me tomorrow to make the appt....the sooner the better...
Thank you all sooo much for all your support through this...you ladies have been wonderful
**UPDATE**
I received the *official* report this morning which had the cell count for our baby girl...it says:
Twenty cells were examined and counted. Thirteen cells contained 45 chromosomes with the sex chromosome pattern consisting of a single X. The remaining seven cells were normal with two X-chromosomes. While the normal cells could potentially represent cells of maternal origin, they most likely represent true mosaicism in the fetus. The majority of 45X fetuses are miscarried and the chromosomal pattern likely is related to the loss of this pregnancy. The implications of this finding for future pregnancies is not clear. Genetic counseling is recommended.
Interpretation: 45X/46XX – Chromosomal pattern consistent with fetal Turner’s Syndrome and Mosaicism for a normal 46XX pattern.
Like I said above almost all 45X/46XX pregnancies that make it full term have a 90(46XX)/10(45X) ratio. So according to the report our baby had 35(46XX)/65(45X). The majority of her cells were the bad ones and if she would have made it full term she would have had a lot of problems. I wouldn’t want a baby that would have to suffer, so I’m glad God didn’t make her.