Well.. im not ttc yet. im accauly still pregnant waiting to m/c.. i have had bleeding last night. then i went brown, then stopped, and its back to brown.. the u/s tech said there still blood in my uterus though.. anyway..

when i lost my first pregnancy... i still wanted to be pregnant after.. so i didnt prevent anything from happening.. because i still wanted to have a baby.. and yes i kinder felt i needed my baby to be replaced.. then i ended up pregnant with my dd..3months later.

this pregnancy wasnt planned.. i was shocked.. but i stated loving that i was pregnant. now all this. im just scared that after.. im going to be still missing and wanting a baby bad. I dont know how im going to deal with it.. Me and dh havent got a good realtionship atm.. so i dont want to jump in ttc.
but then it worrys me ill never have another healthy pregnancy.

the worries.. sorry to.. im just still in shock.. and alot is hitting me atm.. of what ifs...
thanks.

[.x~KAT~x.]

Im so so sorry hun, I wish i could say something to make you feel better

[madmum_sarah]

are you sure you are having a m/c?
i know that sounds silly but my friend was told she had blood in her uterus, had bleeding on and off for over a week and when she went back for a scan they found a heartbeat and she now has a gorgeous little girl.

i totally understand how you feel about the worries etc and never having another child. they are thoughts i have every day. you are right not to jump into ttc if your relationship isnt great right now and that this was an oopsy and im sure when the time is right you will get pregnant again.
its never easy wether you are trying or not but i wanted to send you and i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
please keep us posted
xx

[Eleysia]

Im so sorry youre going through all of this right now, and having relationship issues to boot. I hope that the blood is just a freaky random thing, and doesnt effect your baby. Ill keep you in my T&P as well. please let us know what happens.

yeh i seen the doctor last night.. he said where my sack has implanted its torn off a lil and is cause the bleeding. he bleeding has stopped but i have had the old brown blood. plus theres still blood inside.. so the doctors thoughts are ill either m/c myself.. or ill have to go for another ultrasound to check if the bleeding has cleared or if a bub is forming at all. if not im off to a d/c.

Im praying.. thanks for you all your replys though. everything helps atm. so thanks

[KDD]

:dotug: KUP

[jenn27]

I'm so sorry that you are having to go through all this. You will be in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that you get good news at your next visit. Don't give up up. KUP.

[madmum_sarah]

im still praying that bub is holding on in there hun
xx

I'm so sorry hun. I wish I could say something to make you feel better. All of the "what if" questions go over in my mind all the time. It is so hard. Hopefully you will get answers soon. I hope your relationship gets better too, we all go through the rough patches, hopefully that's all it is. I will be thinking about you.