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August 21st, 2008, 07:04 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hey ladies. Well today is 14 DPO I think......My temps have been crazy this month. It's the first real cycle after my m/c. I think my ovulation day is right but I'm not sure with my temps and all. If FF is right, AF should be here tomorrow. I have had a 14 day LP every month since at least January when I started charting excpet for after the miscarriage. FF said I only had a 12 day LP that month. But anyway, who knows......I dont' want to test because I don't want to see a BFN. I really wanted this cycle to be the one because my due date would be my birthday. My temps have gone way up over the last couple of days and I have been really tired. The last 2 nights I have been ready to go to bed at about 6 in the evening. I know it could all be in my head and that's why I don't want to get tooo excited about it. Will ya'll look at my chart and tell me what ya'll think????? PRETTY PLEASE!!!! Thanks in advance. I hope everyone is having a wondeful week.
******UPDATE******
Well I am going nuts here. My chart is driving me crazy. I haven't tested and I am not testing right now. I absolutely refuse. I don't really know what the problem is. I don't know if I just ovulated later than FF is saying or what the heck is going on. I don't really have any symptoms other than being tired and I had some major heartburn on Friday which I have only ever had during pregnancy. My cervix is High, Closed, and Firm. So I don't know. I guess I'm just going to quit worrying about it and hope that either AF shows soon or that I get some instict that tells me to go get a test like when I found out I was pregnant in May.
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August 21st, 2008, 07:15 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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wow, that is an intresting chart. It's almost backwards. I hope it's a good sign. I would see if AF shows and if not test on Saturday.
Or you could always test earlier, but I totally understand about not wanting to see another BFN.
Fingers crossed
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August 21st, 2008, 07:41 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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much as i would love you to test i would say wait a little longer! chart certainly is being silly this cycle hun!
xx
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August 21st, 2008, 07:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies. I appreciate it. My other charts have been so easy to read and have had a normal consistent pattern to them. This one just throws me for a loop. I am not getting my hopes up as much as I would like to and I absolutely refuse to test anytime soon. I am taking my vitamins and not doing anything I shouldn't be doing just in case so if I'm am pregnant I don't want to know right now. I just don't want to find out and then have the exact same thing happen that happened last time. I just hope the m/c hasn't gotten my cycle all off track. I have not ever o'd on cd 14 since I have been charting. It has always been cd 17 or 19 except for the month I had my m/c. I'll just have to wait and see I guess. Thanks again ladies. I appreciate it.
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August 21st, 2008, 11:46 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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I would say wait a couple days and test. Or if AF isn't here in the monring then test! Good luck girl. I agree though you chart is being silly thing month
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August 25th, 2008, 07:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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i'm going to be crazy before this cycle ends.
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August 25th, 2008, 08:35 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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I hope af stays away and you get a BFP. When will you test? I'm dying over here....hehehe!
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August 25th, 2008, 08:38 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Did you test? i'm dying to know!
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August 25th, 2008, 08:39 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I haven't tested. I am waiting a little bit longer. I just don't won't to see a BFN. I may test at the end of the week if nothing before then.
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August 25th, 2008, 10:37 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Jen, I'm DYING to know if you're preg or not! Your chart looks amazing!!!
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August 25th, 2008, 12:34 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I don't know how you do it! I start testing at 5 or 6 dpo! TEST TEST TEST! Your chart looks great! I really think this might be it for you.
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August 25th, 2008, 12:48 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I know absolutly nothing about charts hun, I just wanted to say I hope you get a bfp when you test
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August 25th, 2008, 01:24 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm not a chart wizard either, but good luck, hun!!! I hope you get your BFP!!! Sending dust your way!
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August 25th, 2008, 05:42 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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August 26th, 2008, 07:17 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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If you are comfortable with testing, test this weekend. I'm not a chart expert, but I have picked up on a few things. Your chart looks amazing. I can't wait to see your
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August 26th, 2008, 08:40 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Well, i do think it is time you test hunny. comeon we are dieing!!!
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August 26th, 2008, 08:54 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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YOU HAVE TO TEST! PLEASE! You're killing me! I know I'm not getting a BFP this month, so I need to live vicariously through someone else. For pete's sake, POAS WOMAN!
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August 26th, 2008, 09:22 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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i cant wait to see the results when you test.
good luck
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August 26th, 2008, 11:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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OK OK ladies....I guess I have put it off long enough....I think I am going to the store this afternoon and get a test. I don't know if I will test this afternoon but I will try and test by in the morning anyway. I don't want to get my hopes up though. I figure as soon as i go buy a test, AF will show. That is what usually happens. Anyway. I will let ya know when I test. Thanks again ladies. Ya'll are the greatest.
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August 26th, 2008, 11:41 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Your chart looks great! I hope you get a BFP tomorrow when you test.
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