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August 22nd, 2008, 12:50 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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hope is lost now, ive been bleeding proper red blood and my symptoms are all gone, its ectopic i can tell  so there it is i guess il be back on the 3mw soon 
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August 22nd, 2008, 01:42 AM
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Aww...thinking of you during this time.
I'm so sorry...when are you going to the DR to have it all confirmed? Especially if you suspect its an ectopic it's even more imperative to get checked ASAP.
Let us know how you go.
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August 22nd, 2008, 02:08 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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im sorry kat.
you dont know for sure until you get it checked though hun so please call your doc now!
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August 22nd, 2008, 02:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry. Please get checked by the doctor. You're in t & p.
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August 22nd, 2008, 03:15 AM
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HUGS.. I really hope you can see the doctor asap.. please get a u/s done.Im so sorry that you have to go through this hurt and pain.. its so cruel.. your in my t&p. stay strong. and if you need to talk remember we are all here from you.
Hugs please update us when you can.
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August 22nd, 2008, 04:32 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Kat, I'm so sorry. You're in my T & P.
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August 22nd, 2008, 04:43 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry. You are in my T&Ps!!!
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August 22nd, 2008, 04:52 AM
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I am so sorry.
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August 22nd, 2008, 05:02 AM
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Oh NO. I am so sorry. You are in my prayers hun.
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August 22nd, 2008, 05:29 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Noooo.
I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope you get in to see the doctor ASAP (if it is ectopic).
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August 22nd, 2008, 05:37 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Kat, go see your dr ASAP. I hope all is still well and just a scare. Miracles happen, I'm praying for yours. KUP
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August 22nd, 2008, 06:07 AM
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Thatnks everyone, here in bristol, our doctors are terrible ive told the midwife im bleeding but she just wants to wait it out until next thursday...i guess there scanning system is crappy to?! she said if i get any pain to call her immediantly I dont really need her to tell me i know its ectopic, ive had shoulder pain all week and my belly has bloated out just like the times before. Because ive had 2 ectopics like this already, i guess the midwife just feels im at low risk for a rupture  I just dont care any more, ive got work all weekend so i expect the bleeding will pick up then...thursdays not long to wait and il be 6 weeks at least i can be scanned and we will know straight away ectopic or not 
I hate the way that i allowed my self to believe that this pregnancy was gonna be ok....i feel so stupid
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August 22nd, 2008, 06:51 AM
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Oh, Kat!! I'm so sorry you are going through this!!! I really think you should be seen before Thursday though!!!!! I'm with Michelle, I'll be praying for you and your bean. Erring on the side of caution though, before you work all weekend, I REALLY think you should be scanned! What, heaven forbid, if it is ectopic and you work hard and cause a rupture yourself?? Please try and be seen before you go to work for the week!
Big Kat, you will be in my thoughts and prayers!!
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August 22nd, 2008, 06:53 AM
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I am so sorry. They are making you wait a week even though it may be ectopic? Don't feel stupid for being positive about your pregnancy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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August 22nd, 2008, 07:42 AM
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I'm so sorry that you are going through this again. It's just not fair. You will be in my thoughts and prayers and I hope you get to feeling better soon. KUP hun.
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August 22nd, 2008, 07:55 AM
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Kat, I hate to see you going through this again. I really think that if you can't get to your dr. for a scan before you have to work, please call in sick. i just can't bear to think that you can hurt yourself. I'll be parying you you and your bean, miracles happen and please do not feel stupid about thinking positive about this pg, those positive thouhgts are what keeps us going everyday we are pg. going your way.
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August 22nd, 2008, 08:18 AM
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Kat, I hate to see you going through this again. I really think that if you can't get to your dr. for a scan before you have to work, please call in sick. i just can't bear to think that you can hurt yourself. I'll be parying you you and your bean, miracles happen and please do not feel stupid about thinking positive about this pg, those positive thouhgts are what keeps us going everyday we are pg. going your way.[/b]
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please dont worry about me hun, i am fine...im beginning to think im having a straight forward miscarriage, my pregnancy test this am was really faint! AND i work in ER LOL so if anything happens i will be straight into the doctors hands!
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August 22nd, 2008, 08:19 AM
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Oh no!  Please tell them if you have shoulder pain hun, its a sign of internal bleeding (thats what they told me when i had my ectopic anyway) I hope all is well and it is just a scare
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh Kat, I'm so sorry!!!!
Please don't wait until next week to get that scan though, we want you safe and healthy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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August 22nd, 2008, 09:26 AM
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Generally Crispy
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I'm very sorry to hear this is happenining.
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