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August 27th, 2008, 12:17 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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well i woke this morning and threw up so i decided to test again (15dpo) and got another bfn! straight after i got that i started getting severe cramps again so i know shes on her way and its not going to be a nice visit either! 
oh its not fair! 12 cycles! all my kids were unplanned so why is it when i am with the man i want to spend my life with and have a family with i just cant seem to get and stay pregnant! 
11 cycles! its just becoming a joke now!
sorry but not feeling very positive this morning and i desperately want a ***!!!!!!! it was the first thing i wanted when i saw that 1 line again too! im not doing it! please dont let me give in on this!!
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August 27th, 2008, 12:59 AM
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ahh im sorry sarah 
Im also now on cycle 12! and this am i also got a BFN! I hate the waiting to..but it will happen for us, im sure of it....keep ya chin up and NO FAGS!!OK?!?
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August 27th, 2008, 02:53 AM
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Life just isn't fair sometimes...I'm sorry Sarah!
Stay far away from those ciggies!!! When I REALLY needed one, I used to go for a walk and try to distract myself...
HUGS TO YOU!
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August 27th, 2008, 02:57 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry honey. STAY AWAY from the ciggies!!
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August 27th, 2008, 03:42 AM
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August 27th, 2008, 05:00 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry! If the witch is going to come, I hope she comes and goes quickly.
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August 27th, 2008, 05:04 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry Sarah. I know how frustrating it is. I am cycle 12 right along with ya. It will be our turn one day. Hang in there girl. Don't give up. We are all in this with you.
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August 27th, 2008, 05:16 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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thanks girls.
im trying hard not to give up but im finding it very hard today! im still being sick, hungry, boobs sore (now spread to nipples) etc etc etc. i dont think i could have more symptoms if i was making them up ffs! but yet again im just being tortured by my body!
ive still avoided smoking despite friends telling me time and time again today to "just have one, one wont hurt it will help you" 
obviously these people are not real smokers and have never tried quitting (especially when also ttc!) i know 1 would hurt, it would send me right back to square one and ive managed 49hours without a *** now so i refuse to undo that!
ok, off to do some more housework to take my mind off fags!!!!!
thanks for the support
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August 27th, 2008, 07:03 AM
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I'm so sorry Sarah. Don't give up though. You will get your sticky bean soon, I'm sure of it. You so deserve it. And don't give into the cig urge!
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August 27th, 2008, 08:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Do NOT give up Sarah. I mean this about the smoking thing and TTC. It feels like a kick in the nuts when you see that one line but it just means that this was not the right month. It will happen in due time, you just have to believe that. I know things will change soon for you hunny, i feel it. Just keep your chin up.
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August 27th, 2008, 08:31 AM
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I am so sorry, Sarah. I wish there was something I could do.
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August 27th, 2008, 08:57 AM
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ohh Sarah, don't give up, it will happen and don't give up on quitting smoking either. I used to be a smoker and I know how hard it is to quit, you need to distract yourself. What I did is that I smoked the last cigarette in the pack and them I refuse to spend the money on more. Chew gum if you can, that will distract your mind or get lollypops, so that you will have something on your mouth and hands. Don’t give up, I know you can do it.
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August 27th, 2008, 09:04 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sarah! I'm sorry she seems to be on her way. I swear, mother nature makes no friggin sense. I agree w/everyone else though-stay away from the cigarettes! None of us will tell you that just 1 will not hurt you but will help you! That's crazy talk. Smoking (as with all addictions) is just such a slippery slope. You have just one then you end up with another and then..yeah, you know. Good luck!!!
hey it looks like I'm out this month too...maybe we'll all get lucky next month and it will be one big BFP-fest.
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August 27th, 2008, 09:33 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Don't give into smoking! It will ruin everything you've accomplished so far. I know its hard to see those darn BFN's but it will happen on day and you will be totally shocked. I had a lot of symptoms this month and i really thought it was it, but nope the witch showed! So i totally know how you feel
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August 27th, 2008, 10:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Sarah- I'm so sorry!! It WILL happen for you someday, it will. And, hopefully it's very soon. Definitely do NOT give into the cigs.. you can do this. (((hugs)))
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August 27th, 2008, 10:23 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry Sarah!!! Quitting smoking on top of ttc is HARD!!!! Stick to both of them, you'll get your reward for both!
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August 27th, 2008, 02:21 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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i dont what it is about that but its happening with me too. i had 2 unplanned pregnancies. and now that im married to the right man for me. we cant have a baby together. 2years it took us and we lost the baby. now trying again. i dont get it either.
but have hope it will happen
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August 27th, 2008, 05:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry Sarah!!!!
You'll get that baby!!! Soon, I just know it!!!
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August 27th, 2008, 07:48 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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"just relax and it'll happen"  Sorry, I just had to say that!
I'm truly sorry for your BFN Sarah. You've had so many ups and downs these past few months. I was really hoping that this would be your month.
Congratulations on staying smoke free!
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August 27th, 2008, 08:22 PM
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I have faith in you Sarah! You can do this! I'm so sorry that it has been such a difficult road, but I'm rooting for ya!
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