[Ann1212]

I decided on Sunday that it was ok to DTD for the first time. I felt bad because he just got home from deployment in June and already I had to press the pause button on him in that department. The whole time I just kept thinking about the m/c and how the night before I lost the baby we had sex, so I started tearing up. So we finished and I had to run into the bathroom so he wouldn't see me crying. Well he knew anyway, and I think he is freaked out about doing it again because of it. When I brought it up the other night, he just said "Let's give it a little longer." The rejection kind of stung, and I'm not going to bring it up again because I don't want to get shot down. It's not a huge deal, but I don't know how to let him know that I"m ok with it, since I thought I was ok last time and I ended up crying. How can I let him know that I really am okay now?

[..Jessica..]

You don't.

You don't want to have sex, you want him to make love to you. And you're going to cry regardless, because it's an emotional intimate thing with the man you love. Tell him when you're laying in bed next to him, that you want him to make love to you. He'll know that you are ready and it is what you want.

I hope I helped.

[Enchanted Mumma]

You don't.

You don't want to have sex, you want him to make love to you. And you're going to cry regardless, because it's an emotional intimate thing with the man you love. Tell him when you're laying in bed next to him, that you want him to make love to you. He'll know that you are ready and it is what you want.

I hope I helped.

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Could not agree more!

[jenn27]

You don't.

You don't want to have sex, you want him to make love to you. And you're going to cry regardless, because it's an emotional intimate thing with the man you love. Tell him when you're laying in bed next to him, that you want him to make love to you. He'll know that you are ready and it is what you want.

I hope I helped.

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