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September 2nd, 2008, 02:39 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Washington
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My doc just called with the results of the genetic tests on the baby. The baby was genetically abnormal, with 3 sets of chromosomes instead of 2. It was a boy. So that means that this m/c was most likely unrelated to my two early losses. I guess it is good news....as far as my odds of having a healthy baby in the future. I may even be TTC after AF comes, but we'll see. I think I'll POAS today and make sure it is neg...if it isn't, I won't expect AF this weekend.
Anyone had similar test results? What did your doc say? Mine has been kinda vague, but I suppose that is because of the two unexplained early m/c.
Thanks.
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September 2nd, 2008, 02:54 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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I'm glad that your loss wasn't related to your other losses. Since my m/c was my first I opted for no testing.
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September 2nd, 2008, 03:06 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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I too, am glad to hear that the loss of your boy wasn't connected to your other two. Still really sucks that you lost him. I hope you get back on track soon Kelly, I can't wait to see your !
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September 2nd, 2008, 04:34 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Sorry for your loss, but glad it seems to be unrelated.
This was my first loss, and honestly I don't even remember the option of testing.
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September 2nd, 2008, 05:47 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm glad you got some answers today, and I am so sorry for the loss of your little boy.
I'm glad your about ready to TTC again and I hope you see a BFP right away!
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September 2nd, 2008, 07:24 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Kelly, my heart breaks for ya,
im glad you have answers. sometimes knowing helps to start the healing process.
I cant wait to see a  from you...
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September 2nd, 2008, 08:13 PM
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Veteran
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Im so glad that they did find out something and that it wasnt related to your other losses!
Hugs
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September 3rd, 2008, 06:31 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: McGehee, Arkansas
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I'm sorry that you lost your littl boy but I'm glad that you got some answers hun. I hope that when you decide to start ttc again, that you get your sticky BFP quickly.
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September 3rd, 2008, 07:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I glad that it was not related .I will be waiting also for results . I lost my little one a couple days ago. I am going in Thursday for delievery I would of been 22 weeks.They will be doing test to see why this happened. They think it was the cord. because at my 17 week vist and ultrasound everything with the heart looked great.
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September 3rd, 2008, 07:50 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Kelly, I'm glad you got some answers. I'm so sorry for the loss of your lil boy though.
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September 3rd, 2008, 08:43 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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awe, i think its nice that you know he was a boy  and that the loss was caused by something so out of your hands
I hope ou get a beautiful sticky september bfp x
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September 3rd, 2008, 09:13 AM
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Generally Crispy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Arizona
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I'm glad you have gotten answers. I think having clear answers puts peoples minds at ease knowing that it was not thier fault that it happened.
We had a pathology report done also. Unfortunately, the pathologist couldnt find any "products of conception". So we didnt get any clear answers. However almost immediately after loss I knew what happened to cause this for us. But still having the pathologist say that they couldnt find anything, especially since I saw the ultrasound in the OR just before I went under for the DNC, and I knew the baby was still there. My doctor called me after the DNC and wanted to do another ultrasound to make sure everything was gotten or that nothing was missed, but I declined. I knew it was gone. It was very upsetting to have them not find our baby. It left me thinking, did they loose it, did it get thrown away by mistake?
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September 3rd, 2008, 09:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Nebraska
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I'm glad that you got some answers Kelly! I'm still so sorry you lost your little boy, but atleast you now know why. When I had my d&c and testing done, everything came back fine; so we still don't know the exact cause of my losses. That was disappointing, I'd rather have a reason any day of the week than to just wonder why.
Anyway, I hope that when you do get back to TTC that you get your sticky BFP quickly!
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September 4th, 2008, 05:24 AM
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I'm glad you got some answers and it's unrelated to your previous losses. Again, I am so sorry you lost your little guy. I hope you get a BFP right away when you TTC again. Maybe we can be DD buddies
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