[mary30]

I jus had a d&c and within a couple months I want to start ttc again. What I am worried about it that I know that I am not going to enjoy this pregnancy. I am going to be so worried. I have had two miscarriages before 12 weeks and then this one at 19 weeks and 3 days. I was fine when I hit that 12 week mark and heard that heart beat . then i knew everything would be fine .Now this happens at 19 weeks. I just don't know if I can start ttc again and worry the 40 weeks.

How is everyone else doing it. I am so scared that this will happen again,but I want another little baby to hold.

[~Lynda~]

i am totally with ya here, but you have to get past it, if you want the end result... it's hard, but you have to trust that when the time is right, you will carry a healthy pregnancy!! i know it is hard, i just had my d&c two weeks ago. i fear it too. but the FEAR of never having another baby is far greater. remember God never gives you more than you can handle!!! HUGS and good luck!!!

I am so sorry to hear of your losses. I don't know how the women get through a pregnancy after loss, but they do. You will have us to lean on every step of the way! And the PAL board is fabulous I hear.

Again, I'm so sorry.

[KDD]

I'm sorry to hear about your losses.

To be honest, I'm scared too. But I take it one hurdle at a time. First, I need to get a BFP, then I'll worry about the pregnancy. I couldn't imagine giving up yet.

[IAMommy]

I'm so sorry for your losses.

I know how you feel right now. It's really hard having to go through this. My advise would be take one day at a time. First recover from your D&C, and then try for a BFP, and then when you are pg again, just let your feelings happen. You maybe fearful and sad one day, and happy about the BFP the next day. Which is pefectly OK. Don't deny your feelings, just accept them. It's OK to be fearful, but it's also OK to be hopeful at the same time.

I hope you have a very uneventful PG in the near future. Good luck and again