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September 8th, 2008, 02:15 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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dh and i are arguing like crazy  im fed up with it and im considering moving out for a bit. I cant sleep with him now, not that he wants to any how
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Katt and Brett, with DS Tommy born July 4th 2005, DD Amber born Aug 19th 2009 and 4 baby angels
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September 8th, 2008, 02:42 AM
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♥KaLeNe♥
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Aww hun I'm so sorry...sounds like your going through a really rough time. I really hope things start to improve for you and your DH.
Every relationship has its ups and downs...hang in there!
Good Luck Sweet!
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September 8th, 2008, 05:12 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Wisconsin
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 sit down and try to talk it out, when you're not so angry with each other!!! good luck!!!
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September 8th, 2008, 05:53 AM
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thanks  i just cant see through this at all, i just want a baby so bad and its all i seem to care about now...i need to face that it probbaly wont ever happen for us
even now all im really bothered about is the fact that i have no chance of a bfp
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Katt and Brett, with DS Tommy born July 4th 2005, DD Amber born Aug 19th 2009 and 4 baby angels
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September 8th, 2008, 10:13 AM
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I'm sorry you and DH are arguing!!! I agree with sitting down and talking things through!
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September 8th, 2008, 11:27 AM
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Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry hon!!!! Men stink sometimes!
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September 8th, 2008, 12:19 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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I'm sorry girl, i know how you feel cause i was there a few months ago! Just try and talk about it and work things out!
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September 8th, 2008, 03:16 PM
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Super Mommy
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<span style="font-family:Arial Narrow">I cant say how many times I actually moved out on DF last year and how many times I thought about it this year, but then I see how if I take things one step at a time they all arent as bad as I thought. I have an obvious problem with jumping the gun and just saying forget it, or I get overwhelmed with a lot of stuff and next thing you know we are jumping down each others throat. It took a minute but I realized I really wasnt going anywhere. You will be OK, somehow some way you have to let things just roll. Wanting a baby is hard when you arent getting it right away, but you cant let that over take your life, relationship or sanity. Just take one thing at a time. Things will fall into place.
Hugs~
Amber</span>
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September 8th, 2008, 03:25 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 I'm sorry you and DH are going through a rough patch!! Men can really suck sometimes, and sometimes they do not get the emotional side of M/C and TTC. I hope you 2 get a chance to sit down and talk things out.
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September 8th, 2008, 04:06 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry that your having to go through this hun. I hope that ya'll can talk things over and that they get better. I will be thinking about you. We are all here if you need us.
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September 8th, 2008, 04:49 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry hon!!!! Men stink sometimes! [/b]
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Amen!! I hope it all works out for you. And don't forget, we are all here for you!
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September 8th, 2008, 10:21 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 I am thinking about you.
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Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
IUI W/CLOMID/TRIGGER FEB 12/13 09!
Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
THE LORD GIVES AND TAKES AWAY MY HEART WILL CHOOSE TO SAY BLESSED BE HIS WONDERFUL NAME!
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Our 8 Greatly missed Angels
12W, 6W, 6W, 9W 1 twin, 5W
17W twins (sex unkown) and "Elijah"
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September 9th, 2008, 12:20 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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thanks everyone x We did DTD last night after all, but we still need to work on us and spend more time together  Im not expecting a BFP this cycle, im just happy that ive oed and my cycles will soon settle back down
If we get a BFP i will be in the June DDC!
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Katt and Brett, with DS Tommy born July 4th 2005, DD Amber born Aug 19th 2009 and 4 baby angels
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