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September 8th, 2008, 07:44 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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First AF after D&C came early and is on her way out now. I'm CD 6 and trying to decide what to do about this cycle. Since this last loss was a rare chromosomal abnormality, it shouldn't happen again. I do have two other early losses that I don't know the reason for though. I'm tempted to start trying now, but awfully scared too. My next doc appointment is the 18th, so I'll probably O before seeing the doc.
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September 8th, 2008, 07:48 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
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That is a tough decision. I just saw my Dr today which was my follow up after my D&C. He told me I can TTC again once AF comes. I know I'll be nervous though. If you asked me a week ago, I would have said we were waiting 2 months. Now I want to TTC immediately. But that's in theory. When the actual time comes in a few weeks, I'm sure I'll be nervous too!
Do what you think is right. If you want to TTC this month, do it. If you feel like waiting another month or two, or three....then do that.
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September 8th, 2008, 09:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Canada
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That is quite a decision to make. I'd say go ahead and start trying if you're ready to. Only you can really judge that.
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September 8th, 2008, 09:28 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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If it were me i would try, but its entirely up to you.
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September 8th, 2008, 10:01 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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If your ready to and Dr has given you the go ahead I personally would but thats me 
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September 9th, 2008, 12:27 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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id try for sure, i just cant help myself! BUT its your decision and only you can say if your ready for anouther BFP xxx
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September 9th, 2008, 05:07 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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It's ultimately up to you Kelly! We are here for you whatever you choose.
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September 9th, 2008, 06:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: McGehee, Arkansas
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I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you. I know it's a hard decision but just do what you feel is right in your heart. G/L hun on whatever you decide.
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September 9th, 2008, 07:23 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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That is what is running through my mind right now. I am still bleeding from my D&C so it is going to be a while yet ,but I keep telling my self that I want to start right away,but I am also nervous. I think I will always be nervous though. I just don't want to have to go through another miscarriage .
If you feel ready then I say go ahead. that is totally up to you. If you are ready and the doc says it is ok. I wish you the best of luck.
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