It's Tuesday

Wee3monkeys · #1 September 9th, 2008, 09:02 AM

Say a prayer for Eleysia today!!

We love you Eleysia! We hope today goes well for you, and we're keeping you in our thoughts and prayers today!

Jessica! · #2 September 9th, 2008, 09:03 AM

Good luck, Eleysia!

tracalyn · #3 September 9th, 2008, 09:04 AM

Wow! I almost forgot about today (other than it's my Mom's bday). Good Luck Eleysia! We're cheering for you.

Christine-MA · #4 September 9th, 2008, 09:08 AM

Thinking of you!

HippyMomOf4 · #5 September 9th, 2008, 09:35 AM

good luck with everything girl! I'm saying a prayer for you

..Jessica.. · #6 September 9th, 2008, 09:56 AM

Good luck today Eleysia!!!! I can't wait to hear the update!!!!!

Pitridge · #7 September 9th, 2008, 10:06 AM

oh gosh, I feel horrible, I forgot that was today.
Eleysia, I'm thinking about you. Good luck I hope that everything goes well for you.
We love you girl!

madmum_sarah · #8 September 9th, 2008, 10:21 AM

ive been thinking of her all day ( yet again time difference is annoying me!)
sending you lots of love and luck darling
xx

Wee3monkeys · #9 September 9th, 2008, 01:51 PM

Just bumping. I don't expect we'll hear from her, I just want her to know that I'm still thinking about her.

Eleysia!!!!

Pitridge · #10 September 9th, 2008, 01:52 PM

Still thinking about you too.

Eleysia · #11 September 9th, 2008, 03:00 PM

Thank you all for the thoughts and prayers. Ill just recap everything in a readers digest version.

its still 50/50 custody
im moving off base
chad decided to tell me he misses me and is so sorry for everything, and that "he wantd a family just as bad as i did" oh, and that maybe in a month or so we can go catch a movie together.

All i could do was cry as he told me all of this. Im not going to go back to him ever, but it really does hurt alot. I loved him with my entire heart. Worst of all it isnt all over yet, we still have stuff to take care of but basically thats it. Im going to be MIA for a while I think. I just need some time to cope with my life right now.

Pitridge · #12 September 9th, 2008, 03:07 PM

Oh girl, I'm sorry it did not go as well as you wanted.
Don't know what to say about Chad comment, it pretty much left me speechless.

I understand you wanting to take time for yourself and take care of stuff. Know that we are all here and we love you. I�m here if you need me, whenever you need me. Take care..hopefully you won�t be gone for too long. I already miss you.

#13 September 9th, 2008, 05:21 PM

Oh Eleysia, I've been thinking about you all day. I wish I could do something to help you. Take all the time you need and we will be right here.

mom 2 haley & tyler · #14 September 10th, 2008, 04:49 AM

As I already told you, I'm so sorry it didn't go better. I understand needing time. I'm here if you need anything. Please take care of yourself. I love ya girl!

jenn27 · #15 September 10th, 2008, 05:27 AM

Eleysia, I am soooo sorry that things didn't go as planned. We all understand if you need some time but remember we are all here for you as well. I know it's hard. I went through the divorce thing a couple years ago and it was hard at first but I ended up finding my other half. I can't imagine life without Donnie. I loved my ex-husband very much but we grew apart and the Lord had other plans for both of us. You will be in my thoughts and prayers girl. I hope you get the rest and time that you need to yourself and please update us when you get the chance. We will miss you but we will still be here when you decided it's time to come back. Take care of yourself girl. We love you.

madmum_sarah · #16 September 10th, 2008, 07:12 AM

omg eleysia

i cant believe he did that to you!!!!

please take care of yourself sweetheart but remember im only a pm away and we are always here for you
i love you girl
xxx

Wee3monkeys · #17 September 10th, 2008, 08:54 AM

Aww, Eleysia! I'm sorry I'm just getting to reply to this! I hope maybe you'll still check-in and see all of our replies, and how very loved and supported you are. I completely understand needing to take some time for yourself! We'll be here waiting for you when you decide you are ready to come back to us! We love you, and we'll miss you while you're away!!

As for court, well, honey, lots of people end up with 50/50 custody. It's a pain in the toosh, but hey, it can be changed down the road. I'm sorry it didn't turn out better! Just keep written records of any issues you have w/ Chad and his visitation or anything else. Then down the road, if you feel it's neccessary, you can have the issue re-evaluated.

YAY for you moving off base. I was thinking that was pretty much a done deal, but I'm glad it's all settled now. I hope your new living arrangements are WONDERFUL!!!!!

And lastly, as for that GIANT JACK@$%*!!!! Holy cow, sweetheart, I'm sorry he's such a....... can't even think of anything dumb enough. After everything he's put you through, to come out and tell you that, at that specific time; how terribly awful of him. I would have cried too, honey, you married him because you loved him; and he didn't live up to your expectations. That's always gonna hurt a little, especially because you have a child together. I'm sorry, sweetheart!

If there's anything that any of us can do for you, please let us know!

Love you, Eleysia!!

..Jessica.. · #18 September 10th, 2008, 02:59 PM

I can't believe he said those things to you!! He is so selfish!!!

I'm so sorry Eleysia!!!!

KDD · #19 September 10th, 2008, 06:41 PM

I'm sorry I've been MIA for a couple of days. I was thinking about you. Please know that we all care about you and are always here if you need to vent or need a virtual hug.