Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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September 9th, 2008, 10:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I guess you may not know for sure if you weren't temping of using OPKs...
But this is my first cycle after my loss, and I started temping again really just to get in the habit. I'm on CD 19 today (I tempted 3 cycles previously and O on day 18 twice and day 17 once) and no jump in temp yet. Granted, it could happen tomorrow which would mean I was only a day late. But I know your cycle can change after pregnancy, so I'm curious what's going on. I already had a short LP (10 days twice, then I got pg).
I had some FRER OPKs that I bought in July that supposedly expire that month (the 20 pack), but I didn't think to try one until CD17 (because I'm not ttc). But they came up with a control line, but stark white otherwise. I had never seen that, is that normal? I'd assume there'd be some LH to detect?
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September 9th, 2008, 10:25 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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If it's stark white, I assume you haven't had the surge yet, but it could very well come within the next 12-24 hours.
I'm not sure if I O'd following my m/c. I wasn't really into all that stuff then.
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September 9th, 2008, 10:28 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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i often get stark white opks. last month i got my very first positive one but the day before was stark white 
i defo O around same time after my losses because i was pregnant in june and july 
i really hope your body gets back to normal asap

xx
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September 9th, 2008, 10:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I did not O for 3 cycles after my m/c, on the 4th one I did O and got pg, good luck!
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September 9th, 2008, 10:40 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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I O'd on CD 20 after my loss in December, then got pregnant right away then with my loss in January i O'd right after on CD28. You will prolly O it will just be delayed
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September 9th, 2008, 10:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Ive just today Oed 3 days later than normal....i had a m/c 18 days ago
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September 9th, 2008, 10:49 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Thanks ladies! I'll use FMU with my OPK tomorrow (and the next few days), I never got a positive using anything but FMU before either.
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September 9th, 2008, 10:51 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I did not have a miscarriage but I had a D&C to remove retained placenta and I definately O'd right on time that month, but I think I O'd early this month  . I've never used temping or OPK's because I can tell by CM and cramping, so I'm not sure if this is helpful to you.
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September 9th, 2008, 10:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I don't know about my first cycle since I didn't temp or use OPK's. I O'd on cd15 or cd16 on my 2nd cycle. I don't know the results of that ovulation yet!
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September 9th, 2008, 02:57 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I know when I had my second miscarriage I did ovulate and I got pregnant before my next period and had a healthy pregnancy
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September 9th, 2008, 04:19 PM
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Generally Crispy
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I wasnt charting or OPK's right after our loss, but I thought that I did and a short time later AF showed up and made me feel like I had O'd. But I cant be 100% about that.
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September 9th, 2008, 08:54 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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i had a d&c on August 21st and I got a positive opk today. i had some O pains too. so i'm a couple of days off but not too bad. gotta see the temp shift to know forsure. good luck to you girl, i hope you O soon so AF can come soon!!! hopefully we'll be cycle buddies.
i can't stand knowing i'm Oing and doing NOTHING!!!! argh!!!
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September 10th, 2008, 06:15 AM
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Mine have been a mixed bag. I did O after 3 of them. Everything was right on time. One I don't think I ever did O, cycle was like 2 months long. This time, I'm fairly certain I O'd, but AF is MIA so I might not have.
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