[BellaBellski]

Hi I'm Tanya (21) engaged mommy to Mattea (18 months) and an Angel, Damian. I've been kinda hanging out in the WTTC forum but I feel guilty any time I mention my loss because I don't want to scare people. I would feel alot more comfortable hanging out with other mommies of angels as I wait to ttc. Would that be alright?? DF and I plan on trying again in January and I can't waait!

[MusicalJulia]

Absolutely!! So glad to have you. I was here for a month before I TTC again, after our loss.. please feel free to hang out, and jump right in.

I'm Julia (27 next month), married to Matt (30) and we're TTC #1 after a miscarriage (at 10+ weeks).

I'm looking forward to knowing ya!

[BellaBellski]

Absolutely!! So glad to have you. I was here for a month before I TTC again, after our loss.. please feel free to hang out, and jump right in.

I'm Julia (27 next month), married to Matt (30) and we're TTC #1 after a miscarriage (at 10+ weeks).

I'm looking forward to knowing ya! [/b]

Thanks! and I'm very sorry for your loss.

We lost our son at 21 weeks. We found out at our 20 week scan (at 19.1 weeks) that he had no limbs at all. Not even stubs - not enough for prosthetics even. We really had no choice but to end the pregnancy because he would have Zero quality of life. It was horrible I was induced at 21 weeks. We then found out that the condition 'could' be genetic and if it is we have a 1 in 4 chance of recurrence so we're pretty scared but trying to think positive about ttc again. I'm going to be a wreck the whole time though, I Just know it.

[Wee3monkeys]

Hi Tanya!! Of course you can hang out here! Welcome to TTCAL! We have a few other ladies WTTCAL too, jump right in and make yourself at home, the ladies here are wonderfully supportive!

[MusicalJulia]

OMG Tanya That's horrible, I'm so sorry.. I can't even begin to imagine how painful that was.

[..Jessica..]

Welcome Tanya!!

I'm so sorry to hear your story!!!! I can't even imagine what you and DF went through during that difficult time! My heart goes out to you!

I'm currently WTTC as well, so, jump right in girl!!!

[BellaBellski]

Thanks again everyone for the warm welcome to the board


It was and continues to be really difficult, and so unexpected. I take such good care of myself while pregnant I never thought anything like that would ever happen to me, you know? I'm really trying to stay positive and keep telling myself that even if it IS genetic..we already know we're capable of perfection because my DD is AMAZING! Plus it's a 75% chance of a completely normal/healthy baby. We want another baby so badly, DD needs a little brother or sister to play with

[Christine-MA]

I am so sorry for you loss! That must have been a heart wrenching decision.

Technically I am WTTCAL because I'm waiting for AF to come. I'm still in my cycle after my D&C. Best of luck to you.

[Brittanie]

Tanya, I'm so glad to see you here. I was posting here in TTCAL for 3 months before we actually started TTC (which, was basically right when I joined JM). I needed the time to "get used" to the idea of actually trying again. And I started posting in PAL before I actually finished my last month of bcp because I needed to "get used" to the idea of actually being pregnant again.

It always makes me feel good to see one of the loss ladies posting here because I think it shows a step further towards healing.



I'll be praying for you that Damian's problem was a one-time thing!

[going4it]

We are also WTTC like Christine, as I just had a miscarriage.
I am soooooo sorry for your loss, that must have been so difficult, I can't even imagine.
HAng out here all you like, we'll be thrilled to have you!!

[BellaBellski]

I am so sorry for you loss! That must have been a heart wrenching decision.

Technically I am WTTCAL because I'm waiting for AF to come. I'm still in my cycle after my D&C. Best of luck to you.[/b]

I actually read your post about that! I'm still waiting on AF, too. I think she's coming today though. That'll be 5 weeks PP for me. I hope yours comes soon and you can start ttc again!

Brittanie, I'm glad to be here It seems like a great board so far!!

going4it, thanks for the warm welcome I'm so sorry to hear about your loss though

[Mommy0305]

Welcome to the board - I'm wait to ttc too, waiting for AF after my d&c all most 3 weeks ago. I was 13 1/2 weeks along, the baby died due to chromosome abnormalities.

Jamie

[mary30]

I Think alot of us are in the same boat as your are. I am waiting too. I had a miscarriage almost 2 weeks ago. now I am just waiting until my period shows up and everything gets back to normal. I Think I read you post I am so sorry for your loss. I also Lost my baby at 19 weeks and 3 days.

[IAMommy]

Welcome to the Board, and I am very sorry to hear about your loss. How tragic, and what a tought decision that had to be. My heart goes out to you.

My Name is Sam, DH is Travis, We are currently TTC after our loss in April.

There are people on this board in everystage of life, so absolutely join us. The people on this board are fantastic, and have been a great part of my healing process.

[~Lynda~]

this is definitely the place to be girl. i'm waiting too after a loss!! so common in and let us help you through the wait. it's difficult to wait for me. I'm just waiting on AF and then it's a go. we hope you like it here and remember talk about your loss, it's the best way to get through it!!! HUGS

[Eleysia]

Hiyas and welcome hunny. Im so sorry about your loss and the decision you guys had to make

Im also WTTC. I have had 2 losses, and a divorce.. so 3 really lol. Please feel free to jump right in, i hope your stay is short and sweet.

[KDD]

Welcome Tanya. My name is Kimberley, we are in our 5th cycle of TTC after our loss in April.

I was saddened by Damien's story. It is truly heartbreaking. However, like you said, you will have a 75% chance of a "perfect" baby like your DD.

I look forward to getting to know you.