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September 18th, 2008, 06:05 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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And took another HPT this morning which was negative so I'm assuming that this is going to be considered a "chemical pregnancy" which is a miscarriage before 5 weeks.
It sucks, but I had kind of expected it since my tests never got dark.
From what I've read chemical pregnancies are usually no worse than a heavy period and we shouldn't have to wait any cycles between trying again.
Though right now I'm considering waiting at least one. We'll see how I feel in a few days.
So if you could, just pray that this is an easy miscarriage. If there is even such a thing. I just want to do this naturally and do not want to have to have a d&c.
Thanks.
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September 18th, 2008, 06:11 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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 im so sorry hun
it doesnt matter how early the loss is, it still hurts 
i will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
xx
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September 18th, 2008, 06:14 AM
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im so sorry hun xxxx
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September 18th, 2008, 06:16 AM
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((hugs)) I'm so sorry
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Angel #1- August '08 (10 weeks)
Angel #2- October '08 (6 weeks)
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September 18th, 2008, 06:39 AM
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Oh no that stinks! I'm so sorry.
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TTC #3 after pregnancy loss at 13 weeks, 6 days
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September 18th, 2008, 06:42 AM
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As awful as it is to say I was almost relieved when the test was negative this morning. If I was still pregnant this could be another SCH and I don't know if I could handle that.
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September 18th, 2008, 07:11 AM
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im so sorry hun (((hugs))) are you going to get checked over? xxx
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September 18th, 2008, 07:21 AM
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Oh, Alicia, I'm so sorry!!!
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September 18th, 2008, 07:26 AM
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I'm going to call my OB to see what they want to do. I've never been through an early miscarriage so I don't know what to expect.
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September 18th, 2008, 07:35 AM
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im so sorry hun, i hate seeing anyone go through this, its just awful, hopefully your OB will get you in just to be safe xxxx
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September 18th, 2008, 09:22 AM
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I just wanted to say Im sorry
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September 18th, 2008, 10:02 AM
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I'm so sorry girl!
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September 18th, 2008, 10:02 AM
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I'm so sorry! Even if its not like your last loss, it is still so hard to have such great news and your hopes up only to have them dashed. My first 2 m/c were like that, both happened around 5 weeks.
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September 18th, 2008, 02:27 PM
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Hi Hun...I'm so sorry for your loss. The same thing happened to me last month...not nice! It's such an extreme emotional roller coaster...from such a high down to such a low
I did have stronger cramps and heavier bleeding, with slight clotting but apart from that it was generally like a normal period.
My Dr gave me the OK to start trying straight away...there was no need to wait a cycle. You need to do want you feel comfortable with.
Once again..sorry for your loss Hunny
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September 18th, 2008, 02:50 PM
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Oh Alicia, I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a big hug. I know this must be very hard for you, and I'll be praying for you.
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September 18th, 2008, 04:35 PM
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Veteran
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am new here but I just wanted to tell you sorry.
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September 18th, 2008, 04:59 PM
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I'm so sorry. That really just stinks.
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