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September 19th, 2008, 05:00 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am really feeling pretty down today, and I couldn't sleep very well last night. I really thought that my EDD wasn't going to affect me this bad, but I just feel down and depressed.
I took the day off of work today, just to spend some time with DH. I don't think I could have really gotten much work done anyway, I'm a huge ball of emotions, and I really can't concentrate right now.
I really miss my little boys. I will forever have their little faces and bodies engrained in my mind, but all I want to do it just hold them again. I would give anything for that.....
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September 19th, 2008, 05:31 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm soooo very sorry that you are having a rough day. i can only imagine what it's like. I am sure I will have those same feelings when my EDD approaches. Just know that we are all here for you and that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Enjoy your time with DH hun.
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September 19th, 2008, 05:49 AM
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Aww hun I am so sorry. It is a very, very sad day and it's ok to feel like that. Just know that you have two little angels watching over you all the time.
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September 19th, 2008, 05:54 AM
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I am so sorry 
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September 19th, 2008, 06:01 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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September 19th, 2008, 08:36 AM
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 Im so sorry hunny. I wish I could take the pain away for you, i really do. Its such a horrible thing to have to go through to begin with, then to have to relive it makes it that much worse. I hope that today isnt hard on you, and that you are able to find some peace. Even though you cannot reach out and physically hold your little boys, your heart always will hold them.
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September 19th, 2008, 08:40 AM
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i wish i could say or do something to help hunny but i dont know what. my date is coming round fast too and i dont know how i will cope (my OH wont be any help)
just remember sweety that we are here for you and you will be getting your bfp soon.
i know that your bfp wont replce your boys but it will give you some peace in your heart
xx
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September 19th, 2008, 09:08 AM
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I'm so sorry, hun!!
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September 19th, 2008, 09:19 AM
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I'm so sorry hun
I wish there was something I could do or say that would make this pain go away. We are here for you.
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September 19th, 2008, 09:32 AM
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I, too, am sorry the it's been a tough day...I hope the day gets better for you!!!
God bless to you and yours!
Sending lotsa hugs from Houston!
Dawna
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September 19th, 2008, 09:55 AM
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I'm sorry hun I hope that your day goes as easily as possible. Do you have anything planned? DF, DD and I had a balloon release for our son on his 1 month last week and we will again on his EDD. We wrote letters to him on the balloons and sent them up, it was beautiful. It really helped us feel better about the day. I hope that you find some way to feel close to your boys and have some peace *HUGS*
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September 19th, 2008, 10:31 AM
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(((Hugs))) I am so sorry. I wish I could help but I understand what your feeling. I have decided I am NOT going to take out my pics of my dd or look at her urn on her edd..I cant bear it. I hope you find a little peace after today ((hugs)))
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September 19th, 2008, 10:38 AM
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I am so sorry. EDDs are hard and yours must be twice as hard. you are in my thoughts and prayers
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September 19th, 2008, 10:51 AM
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I'm so sorry
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September 19th, 2008, 11:44 AM
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I'm so sorry  Please take care of yourself and rest today. I'm sure this is a very difficult time for you.
((((((((((hugs)))))))))
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September 19th, 2008, 01:01 PM
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Sam, I'm so sorry, I hope your day was rather peaceful like mine. Nothing bad happening at least. Hopefully we both get our BFPs soon.
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September 19th, 2008, 02:56 PM
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I'm so sorry your going through this Sweet... to you during this time.
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September 20th, 2008, 07:06 AM
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Thanks to everyone for your support. You girls on JM really mean a lot to me. You have really been a huge part on my healing process. I hope that as all of you face challenges in your life, I can be there for you too.
Yesterday morning was pretty rough for me, but as the day went on, I was more and more at peace. DH and I took our two dogs to a nearby lake and went on a nice 2 hour hike. It is really beautiful out there, and the peace of the scenery just washed over us. After the lake, we went a bought a nice arrangement of fall flowers and took it out to their grave site. So now their site is decorated with pinwheels, and fall flowers, it looks really nice.
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