[azura24]

<span style="font-family:Garamond">My cousins wife just had her baby...I would be elated with joy except she is the one that was lying about being pregnant in the beginning. lied and said that the docs told her that she was expecting twins but she miscarried one. lied and said that she miscarried the other...than just happened to be miraculously the baby was there again!!!! I work in the hospital that she went to for all these diagnosis and (from an insider and physical proof) she lied about the entire thing!!! She was contemplating an abortion (which she used as birth control and for choosing the sex of her baby!!!!!!)
Now, she had her baby 3 weeks early so she says, which i also know is a lie because she said she went into er yesterday and they told her she was dilated to 2 and she could go home! I work in LABOR AND DELIVERY!!!!! THEY WOULD NEVER SEND YOU HOME DILATED ON YOUR 4TH KID 3WEEKS EARLY!!!! MAYBE ON YOUR FIRST, POSSIBLY YOUR SECOND BUT YOUR 4TH!!!!! Well, they have the baby and she is only 3 lbs 1 oz!!!! Do you know why!!!!! Because she has been drinking the entire pregnancy, smoking the entire pregnancy!!!! and smoking weed, the entire pregnancy!!!!!!! AHHHHH i want to just smack her!!!!! The last time I seen her, she was 7 months tippin back her 3rd bottle of Arbor mist!!!!!! I said what the F*** are you doing, she said if billy can go out, im going to drink!!!!!I said she was a dumba$$ and left!!!! I am very straightfoward with her!!!!!!! She knows I cant stand her and I think she is a piece of whatever!!!!! She smoked weed and cigarettes with her other kids and thought nothing was going to ever happen!!!!!!!!! I am soo angry right now! My cousin wants me to go see the baby tomorrow! How can I? I want to kill her!!!! How could she be so irresponsible, she is 27 years old!!!! Ugghhh...why???? </span>

[BellaBellski]

Just... wow. I'm really sorry you have to be exposed to such an awful person It's soo unfair the types of people that get healthy babies when people that take such good care of themselves lose theirs

I just found out that an old friend of mine is pregnant again. She already has a 19 month old son who was taken by Social Services 6 months ago and she hasn't even gotten him back yet. She also drinks and parties and on top of that she has an eating disorder. It infuriates me. I am such a good mom, I never do anything wrong while I'm pregnant and I lost my son. She does EVERYTHING wrong and she gets her babies.... it's not fair. I hate people like that!!

[Enchanted Mumma]

Your so right...it's NOT fair. Why are people like that given the amazing blessing of having a child and they don't care and to make it worse they just keep falling pregnant...over & over.
Why?... When we are all trying so hard and gone through so much heartache to have a child that we will adore and cherish...

I don't get it.

[~Lynda~]

yes, i don't get it either... somewhere somehow it must make sense to someone, but not me. if i were you, i'd distance myself from her. she is not a smart person!

Wow. My jaw dropped as I was reading that. I am so sorry, what a mess. If I were you, I'd never really speak to her again, unless I absolutely had to, but I'd be there for the kids b/c they will definitely need someone as a normal role model. I hope that innocent little angel makes it and grows big and strong.

[amy2008]

I don't even know what to say. It is amazing to me that women like this get pregnant and carry the baby to term. I would agree that you distance yourself but try to be there for the sweet baby.

Good luck - what a sucky situation.

[Eleysia]

This woman is horrible. I cant believe that a person like this can be able to have children.... Grr she is about as high up on my list as that other twit who was angry about having a healthy baby girl.

[Brittanie]

Your so right...it's NOT fair. Why are people like that given the amazing blessing of having a child and they don't care and to make it worse they just keep falling pregnant...over & over.
Why?... When we are all trying so hard and gone through so much heartache to have a child that we will adore and cherish...

I don't get it.[/b]

I think we all struggle with this. I know I did, and still do, when I see/read about parents who are stupid and don't care or appreciate the blessings they have. I used to think that in the end it would all come out to be fair somehow. I still want to believe that, but I don't think it will ever happen in this world.

This woman is horrible. I cant believe that a person like this can be able to have children.... Grr she is about as high up on my list as that other twit who was angry about having a healthy baby girl. [/b]

You know, I had an online acquaintance who found out that the baby she was carrying was a healthy boy and posted a long post about how she felt like her "daughter" had died. Mind you, this was mere weeks after one of our group had lost her daughter at 21 weeks. I couldn't believe that, and went off on her (and this was before I lost Cora). I don't get people like that.

[azura24]

well thank you ladies for allowing me to vent!

I did end up getting up the strength to go see the baby and be of support for my cousin. He was glad to see me there. The baby is sooo beautiful but she is tiny! 3 lbs 1oz. She is having trouble with her sugar levels and before every feeding needs to be have it tested, yes with a poke... and she is in an incubater because she cannot regulate her temperature. The mom tried to make up soooo many excuses why she was sooo small and I just ignored her and watched television.

Please say a prayer for my lil baby cousin, pray that she doesnt have to suffer throughout her life because of the stupid things her mom has done.

Thank you guys for being here.

Amber

((((Hugs)))) I have no words that can make this better. Most people take pregnancy for granted and that it's such a easy thing and some have the "who cares i don't want this" attitude. It makes me so mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ((((hugs))))

[SummerBabies11]

Some women really don't deserve to be mommies...

I have an aquantance from high school who I randomly ran into at Kohls. I told her we just moved into a house and that she should come over. She was telling me what a sleezy boyfriend she had and was asking me if I knew "any good guys." I actually was able to tell her yes, and it was my husbands friend who had just come home from an Army tour. I figured they could hang out, she could get over the "terrible, lying" boyfriend she had. They could go out, and be friends. Well long story short, they ended up getting married a month later. The guy was days away from getting out of the Army where he was going to go back home, go to school, and find a job. He ended up re-enlisting, getting a dog, and a cat, as well as renting an apartment that was way out of budget. She supposedly took 5 pregnancy tests, were 4 of them said positive, this was about 3 weeks after they even met!. I couldn't believe it. You can't hardly even show up on a home pregnancy 4 weeks after having sex. So anyway, he went to a month long military school, but half way she called him up telling him she had cancer. She also said that "the Chemo could hurt the baby". He was devastated, and cried every night for 3 nights until he was able to go home. So he gets home, they end up HAVING SEX, when he came home which happen to be just after she got home from Chemo. He was asking her questions like what type of cancer do you have, who is your doctor, etc. Basically he finally figured out something was up, and they are now getting a divorce. I started ignoring her calls since my husband was the one who brought it up about her lying about being pregnant. He even took the guy out for lunch, and truthfully told him, he thought she was lying, and if she was pregnant it was from the boyfriend previous. It turns out that NOW she is pregnant, and the guy has the bloodwork that proves that. That was probably because she either got pregnant from that other guy, and she was putting it on the new guy, or she wanted to be pregnant, he believed she was, and they didn't use protection. Some woman just really do not deserve to be moms. I hope the worst for her.

[going4it]

Life REALLY sucks sometimes!! And it rarely is fair.

[Pitridge]

I don't know what to say to this. I'm glad that you went to see the baby, she's at no fault in this. I'll pary for her.

Your cousin's little precious baby is still in my thoughts and prayers. I am glad you ignored the mother's excuses. It would take everything in me to not scream and yell at her.