[Eleysia]

Thank you all. Everyone who advised me on my "do people really change" thread. Wether you said what I wanted to hear or not thank you so much. It really was my voice of reason. I genuinly conidered going back to Chad, and finally last night I told him to take a hike. He was getting pushy, and quite rude. This morning I got an email from him telling me I was the worst thing to ever happen to him. I cant believe I almost went back. So thank you all for being my rock, and helping me with some of the hardest things Ive encountered in my life. I appreciate every one of you very much. Moral of the story is, some people do change, but Chad will not.

[jenn27]

I'm sorry that he was being a jerk and said those things. I hope you don't pay any attention to what he said because he lying. If you were really the worst thing that had ever happened to him, then why was he asking you back in the first place. He is just mad becuase you turned him down. Good for you hun. YOu deserve to be happy and you deserve someone who loves you the way you should be loved. I hope that you can move on from this point in your life and be happy. I'm sorry you had to go through that but at least his email just shows you that he will never change. We love ya Eleysia and we are always here for you.

[madmum_sarah]

im so sorry he almost got to you again sweety but im proud of you for staying strong and not going back!
i love you girl and will support you in any decision you make but i have to say im glad you made this one

xx

[IAMommy]

Eleysia - He is terrible to say that too you. He seems like a very jealous person, and I am def glad you decided not to go back to him, especially after this.

You are probably the BEST thing that has ever happened to him, and thats why he is lashing out at you so much, if he didn't care, he wouldn't say anything at all to you.

[Brittanie]

Eleysia - He is terrible to say that too you. He seems like a very jealous person, and I am def glad you decided not to go back to him, especially after this.

You are probably the BEST thing that has ever happened to him, and thats why he is lashing out at you so much, if he didn't care, he wouldn't say anything at all to you.[/b]

I totally agree with this. I was thinking the same thing. You rejecting it was proof that he didn't have any control over you any more and had to be hurtful.

I'm proud of you for standing up to that. You don't need that kind of verbal abuse and manipulation in your life.

[LifeToTheMax]

I'm glad that you stood your ground and didn't let him get to you, but I'm very sorry that he reacted the way he did. Like the other ladies said, you are in no way the worst thing that ever happened to him, if you were, he wouldn't be upset. Still, there is no excuse for him saying those things to you. And we are always here for you, whatever you need!

[going4it]

Good for you for figuring it out on your own! I know people gave advise, but YOU are the one who decided YOUR fate!

[Wee3monkeys]

I totally agree with this. I was thinking the same thing. You rejecting it was proof that he didn't have any control over you any more and had to be hurtful.

I'm proud of you for standing up to that. You don't need that kind of verbal abuse and manipulation in your life.
[/b]

Absolutely to ALL of that!!! Especially the verbal abuse and manipulation part! I'm so proud of you Eleysia for not running back to him, but so sorry that he's proving what was said of him in the first place.

I hope that things will greatly improve in your situation with Will, now that your eyes are truly opened! Good luck, hun!!!!

[Eleysia]

Thank you guys so much. I really dont know what to say besides that. It sucks not having friends out here, you are all the closest thing i have to it, and for that im so greatful.

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

Oh honey, I'm sorry he is such a jerk. I'm glad you finally stood up to him. He showed his true colors. I'm so glad you didn't go back to him. You deserve so much better. I am always here for you girl! I love ya!!

Eleysia, I don't remember if I replied to your original post about this, but I remember reading it and reading what everyone else was saying and I was thinking oh god no, please don't go back to him, I love Will! lol You seem so much happier (I know I only know you through a computer) but jeez Chad just isn't the one for you. I am so glad you were strong and didn't take him back. It is tempting and I understand why, it's always easier to go back to something comfortable and familiar, but I'm glad you didn't fall for it.

You are one strong little lady!

[Pitridge]

I think he meant to say that he IS the worst thing that ever happened or will happen to you.
I'm glad that you decided to tell him to take a hike. You do deserve better. How are things with Will?

[Eleysia]

Things with Will are getting better. I think telling Chad to take a hike will help it overall as well. Ive been incredibly moody latley and unfortunatly taking it out on Will He isnt holding any grudges though thankfully lol. I was mean to him the other day, and he went out to buy me a bday present right afterwards I felt awful. He really is such a great guy to me.


Did i mention totally off topic but i think my kitty is pg The little black and white one i had pics of a month ago. So Patty, do you want one??? I cant wait till she has them, i get to be a mommy again haha sorta....

[Pitridge]

I would love to take one, but dh will kill me, he's allergic to cats (so he says).

[..Jessica..]

I couldn't agree more that he's lashing out at you because you and Gavin were the best thing to happen to him EVER in his pathetic life! Ugh! He sucks so bad! I'm so glad you told him to foof off!!!!!

[amy2008]

Chad is a butt head. Good for you for kicking him out of your romantic life. You know we are all always here for you - just like you are for us!!!!!