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October 8th, 2008, 01:11 PM
madmum_sarah's Avatar formally sarah_the_sane_1
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well.......................
we know my cycles have been rather erm.... crap to say the lease since my loss in june. ranging from 17 days (Oing cd6 and then having a very short lp compaired to my 16 day norm) to 32 days (with an lp of 20days )
well, after having the blood tests done, all that came back was that my iron was dangerously low, i have heard nothing else so im guessing all is ok (i will confirm when i call doc tomorrow though before i make final decision)
im supposed to be starting a new, stronger pill when af comes but guess what, so far im on cd23 and no af (thats good for me lately) im pretty sure i Od cd14 this time and as long as af doesnt show tomorrow then i will have an ok lp as well.
now, my bad thought..... im thinking about not starting the pill
my due date is the 20th, af is due just before then and even the thought of taking the pill is sending me into an emotional spin. if i start taking that when my due date is here i just know im going to break down.
what do you ladies think i should do? im just so tempted (as long as i get the all clear from tests tomorrow) to say sod the pill this cycle and see how it goes. i have them so if my cycles do start to get stupid again then i can start on them but while the going is good, i could get going!
feedback please.... lol
xxx

well i called the doctor and guess what.... he says all hormone tests came back fine so just go on the pill and regulate my cycles as all seems to be in order (yeah im not telling him im trying for a baby cos hes an opinionated pig )
af isnt here, temps are still way up and im on CD24 (maybe 10DPO) so i guess that means im putting the pill on hold for a bit and see how my cycles pan out now
im still gutted that im not pregnant when "jamies" due date is here but at least now i wont be as bad emotionally as i would have been if i started the pill.
if i was pregnant this cycle then it would be even easier (but still hard) but that would take a miracle as the closest we dtd was midnight the day after i Od
so i guess we are back to ttc after all
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October 8th, 2008, 02:30 PM
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I say that if not starting the pill makes you feel better, then hold off! You know your body, and I can definitely understand not wanting to "miss out" when there's any chance that it could be the month. Plus, you HAVE the pills, so if they do start to get weird again, you still have that option.
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October 8th, 2008, 08:40 PM
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I agree 100% with Amy! If you see your cycles starting to go straight on their own, then why bother with the pills?
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October 9th, 2008, 03:01 AM
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Hey Sarah,

You need to do what you need to do. If you want to put it off and wait and see then you have that choice.

Do what will make YOU happy!
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October 9th, 2008, 07:22 AM
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I was going to go back on the pill, but after losing Marina, the thought of preventing another pregnancy makes me soo depressed. I feel like I am saying, she wasn't what I wanted anyway, or something, if I try to prevent another baby. I say if you don't feel comfortable taking the pill, don't!
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October 9th, 2008, 09:47 AM
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YAY, Sarah!!! I'm so glad everything came back fine!!!! I say, Go For It!! Good luck, hun!!!!
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October 9th, 2008, 09:49 AM
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I'm glad your doc called you back and let you know about your tests! Don't bother to tell him about you wanting to try! When are you testing?
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October 9th, 2008, 10:21 AM
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I'm glad all came back fine! Woohoo for not going back on the pill. G/L honey!!
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October 9th, 2008, 01:54 PM
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I think that's great news!!! No need to mess with things if they're starting to get normal and you have a chance of getting pg. Good luck and lots of baby dust!!!
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October 9th, 2008, 05:32 PM
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lol I know I am late as useall but follow your heart!
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