[Alison81]

So, AF found me. The good news is I had a 12 day LP, longer EVER since december 2007, but the bad news is, I still spot a ton before AF. This is cycle #12 of TTC, which really scares me, like I think something is really wrong, right? That's a lot of cycles without getting pregnant.

I have a doctor's appointment in november, and am wondering, what kinds of questions should I ask? I've had all the basic bloodwork done in april, and my doctor said the results were perfect, and she expected me back in a month or two, pregnant. That didn't happen, so I made an appointment for november. I'm starting to worry that it may be a really long time before I see a BFP again. I used to have trouble staying pregnant, not getting that way.

In fact, I originally didn't join this board because I thought, well, I will get pregnant right away, so what's the point in joining? ha. Little did I know..

[madmum_sarah]

sorry af showed hun but well done on the longer lp!
i wish i could help but im on cycle 14 now and still waiting for my sticky bean which is so hard after getting pregnant 5 times without trying!
i do hope you get your bfp soon or some answers to why you havent
xx

[Enchanted Mumma]

I'm sorry AF showed Hun!! She's really is a ...!!! I hope you get your BFP soon!

When you see your DR I would request full blood works, especially all the antenatal blood tests. If possible I would ask for an pelvic ultrasound as well just to make sure all is well and to rule things out.

[MountainMomma]

An HSG to make sure your tubes and uterus is clear would be a good place to start if all your bloodwork was normal. Has he had a semen analysis?

We had just assumed all this time (2 1/2 years) that the problem was DH and not me because I had kids and he didn't. I learned the hard way that already having children does not mean you are still fertile (for men or women) DH's numbers were great and the problem was me!