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October 15th, 2008, 07:56 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I've been peeking in and out of here.. I'm sorry I haven't been more of a support to anyone- I suck, I know. I've just been going through some stuff.. first the whole hacker/password situation- I had troubles logging on for a *week* ... and then last week I had spotting.. I thought I was fine, it stopped. It started again, heavily (this was Saturday). I've already seen my midwife.. my hcG levels are basically non-existant, no heartbeat.
Two times now.. two times. Last time was a fluke, right? What was this time? Maybe I wasn't meant to to be a momma  I'm not TTC anywhere in the near future. I don't even want to try at all, ever.. right now. Ugh.
Do you all mind if I post here again?? 
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Angel #1- August '08 (10 weeks)
Angel #2- October '08 (6 weeks)
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October 15th, 2008, 08:01 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh no, I'm so sorry 
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October 15th, 2008, 08:39 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Washington
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I'm so sorry Julia!
I remember the feeling that you are describing so well....last time was a fluke, so why did it happen twice (3x now for me). I still don't have an answer. Good news is that feeling of never wanting to try again will pass with time. Take care of yourself and please stick around....even if you're not TTC right away.
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October 15th, 2008, 08:51 PM
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CopperBoom!
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: MI
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No Julia! I am so so sorry. This is such horrible news! I know that feeling well, the first time was a fluke, but why again? It's unfair! Take whatever time you need to heal, and stick around, we are here for you, whatever you need.
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October 16th, 2008, 02:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Bristol, England, UK
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Im sorry youve had anouther loss....im right with you on the no TTC at the momment thing (((hugs))))
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October 16th, 2008, 05:22 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Julia, I'm so sorry you're going through this again. I will keep you in my t&p.
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October 16th, 2008, 06:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Wisconsin
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OMG girl, no!!! i'm soo sooo soooo sorry!!!! did your dr/midwife have any suggestions? BIG BIG BIG to you!! you can hang with us anytime. i'm sorry you're back. i was thinking about you a couple days ago, wondering how you are doing. please let me know if i can help in any way. when i lost my baby, talking to people really helped me. so if you need to talk, PM me!!! don't hesitate!!! HUGS
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October 16th, 2008, 07:30 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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October 16th, 2008, 07:42 AM
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Super Mommy
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October 16th, 2008, 09:59 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Oh no girl! I'm so sorry! I had two losses in two months and it was hard i couldn't understand why it happened again! Just know we are all here for you!
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October 16th, 2008, 10:34 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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October 16th, 2008, 03:23 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Ontario, Canada
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I'm so sorry, Julia. That's really terrible news. You know you're welcome here when your're TTC, when you're not TTC, and when you are pregnant and ready to pop. I've only ever had one loss, but I felt some of the same things as you. I lost my daughter at 24 weeks and they couldn't determine the cause of the stillbirth, but then they kept telling me it was a fluke. I kept thinking, if they didn't know why she died, then how could they tell me it was a fluke? Big to you.
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October 16th, 2008, 03:45 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Don't you dare go anywhere, Julia!!!! I'm so sorry sweetie!!!! 
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October 16th, 2008, 09:23 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
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Im so sorry.
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October 17th, 2008, 12:30 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: B.C. Canada
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I am so sorry this has happened to you again
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Ttcing #9 After TWO 2nd trimester loss's and FIVE 1st trimester loss's. Missing our 8 ANGEL'S
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Kyle (absent) Chelsea, Miki, Hanna, Johna, Sari, Jessiah and Isaiah.
     
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October 17th, 2008, 06:22 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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I'm so sorry Julia. I hope that you will still stay with us even if you aren't TTC.
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October 17th, 2008, 08:11 AM
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Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry about your loss.
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