Getting Pregnant

#1 October 17th, 2008, 09:57 AM

It's been a year since my loss.....and I'm still not pg. I'm beginning to wonder if there's something really wrong with one or both of us.

I don't know where I'd be without you girls, honestly, I can't imagine going through a loss and not having my JM ladies through thick and thin.

I love you all and good luck to everyone TTC and sticky bean wishes to TTCAL grads.

And Jess and Eleysia, I promise I won't disappear for weeks on end. It's been rough losing my Gramps

But I'm back and I love you!

mom 2 haley & tyler · #2 October 17th, 2008, 10:19 AM

I'm so sorry Erika! I hope you will soon get a BFP. I've been praying for you. Again, I'm sorry about your Gramps. I'm so glad you're back though.

Eleysia · #3 October 17th, 2008, 11:08 AM

Im so glad you took some time to yourself, and that you're back hunny

You sound like you are a little more refreshed about losing your grandpa.

Have you guys done any testing? Youre at the point where you can go in and request it i believe. For younger couples its a year of infertility, and 6 months over 35. Id say look into it if you guys have the means.

How is everything going with your old job btw?

#4 October 17th, 2008, 12:09 PM

Thanks girls, I do feel better.

And Eleysia, I don't know what to do about my old job, part of me is just wanting to put it all behind me, pay my med bills and never think of them again. The other part of me is saying this is SO NOT FAIR and they SHOULD NOT get away with it. I was thinking of having my lawyer write something up just to scare them.

And about getting tested for infertility- I am unemployed and don't have insurance right now, but Zack does so I thought of asking if he'd go get an SA done. But the last time I brought something up about the possibility something is wrong, he said, why don't we try having sex every day for a month b/c I don't think we do it enough. He does have a point there.....

Anyways, I've got a lot to think about. Thanks for reading

I love you girls!

Pitridge · #5 October 17th, 2008, 12:16 PM

I'm sorry about your Gramps passing away.....

I was wondering, can Zack put you in his insurance?
I hope you get your bfp very soon. I'mm send you some good luck dust

kellyanne · #6 October 17th, 2008, 06:25 PM

today....I'm sure it has been a tough day.

Keep your chin up though, I really think your BFP is right around the corner.

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#7 October 17th, 2008, 07:16 PM

Patty- about the insurance, that's another whole topic to post about! Yes Zack can put me on his insurance, it's just getting to that point....grrrr men... thanks for your kind words hun, I don't know what I'd do without you girls

Kellyanne- I hope you're right, I hope my BFP is around the corner, in all honesty, I don't "try" that hard. I don't chart, temp, etc etc etc. But jeez louise a year, comeon there should have been an "accident" Anywho, thanks for the hugs

Michelle- Thanks for the prayers. You're such a sweetie.

KDD · #8 October 17th, 2008, 08:38 PM

Oh Erika, you've had some rough times lately. I'm sorry about your grandfather and I pray that you get your bfp soon. A year is a very long time to wait.