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October 23rd, 2008, 07:14 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: McGehee, Arkansas
Posts: 2,684
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Thank you ladies for all the support and kind words. Yesterday was a really rough day for me. I am feeling a little better today but it seems as though i go back and forth. I guess we all do that at times. Ya'll are the most amazing women ever. I'm soooo very happy to know that ya'll feel that I have done a good job co-hosting. However, I am still going to step down because I just don't feel I can continue that roll right now. I promise I'm not going anywhere. I'm still going to post and check on everyone like I have been doing but I just feel someone else should have the opportunity to be a co-host. I will be on here daily stalking and chatting. I love all you ladies and I hope that we all have get the little miracles that each and every one of us deserve. I don't know if I will take a break from TTC or what. I guess it will just depend on how this cycle goes and what kind of results I get from the clomid challenge test. Thanks for understanding and thank you all for being so supportive and encouraging. I can't say enough how much ya'll have affected my life. </span></span>
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October 23rd, 2008, 07:37 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Nebraska
Posts: 3,312
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What are you talking about!!!?!?!?!?!?! You're not stepping down, Jennifer, no way! You will have a mutiny on your hands I tell ya!
Honey,  I'm so sorry you are having a rough time right now! That's what we're all here for though, the support of all these wonderful ladies to help us get through those rough times. We understand if you need a break, we all need breaks, we all have rough patches.  Keep up w/ your Clomid, temping, bd, etc! Don't give up, honey, you WILL get there! You will get your sticky bean, I just know it! How can you not, now that you're receiving the medical help. It's their job to help you get pregnant, and you WILL! Keep your chin up, hun!!
Take a break, Jen, but come back to us; don't quit!
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October 23rd, 2008, 07:38 AM
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Awww Jennifer, do whatever you need to do. My heart is breaking for you right now.  Don't be sorry about stepping down, you've done a wonderful job and hopefully the clomid will work this cycle. I am so so sory hun!
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October 23rd, 2008, 07:55 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
Posts: 8,212
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Noooooooooooo!  I knew this was coming. You have been such a wonderful co-host. Don't give up though! You will be holding you and Donnie's baby soon. I just know it. I hope the clomid does the trick for you on the first try. Please stick around and keep us posted. We are always here for you. You are an amazing person
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October 23rd, 2008, 07:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Washington
Posts: 1,960
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I understand if you need to step down, but I think you are a wonderful co-host and have done a fabulous job. Your care and concern for others is so evident. It has had an impact on my life and I know I'm not the only one. During my toughest moments, you were one of the people always checking on me.....and something so simple made me feel so much better and less alone. I hope that you will still call the board home....regardless of whether you are TTC right away.....so that we can try to "return the favor" of support you through your low times.
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October 23rd, 2008, 08:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 7,673
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I am so sorry that you are going through a rough time in your life now. You do what you need to do for you,but please do not leave altogether. We would miss you. I really hope that Clomid does the trick the first time around.
Take all the time you need to heal your heart ,but never give up hope .
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October 23rd, 2008, 08:20 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
Posts: 4,400
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Jennifer, Im so sorry that things suck right now  I had a feeling that you were going to say this in your post when I read the title. I dont think you should step down, but if thats what you think then I support you (even though i want you to stay a co-host). I absolutly agree with everyone else, you have done an amazing job, and it really is obvious how caring you are. You always check up on epople, you always give 100% to everyone. I can understand needing to give some of that to yourself now  .
I hope that you'll reconsider being our co-host, i really think youre doing wonderfully. (Im also hoping its just the Clomid talking and that youll be able to pick yourself up, with help from us, very soon)
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October 23rd, 2008, 08:51 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Tulare, CA
Posts: 13,484
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I feel the same way you do sometime, so i understand where your coming from. I hate to see you step down but i'm glad you won't be leaving us for good.  we are all here for you through your tough time!
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October 23rd, 2008, 09:00 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 1,420
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I understand how you feel, and I'm sorry.
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October 23rd, 2008, 09:46 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
Posts: 9,815
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I just wanted say that I'm sorry you are going through this rough time, and I'm sorry to hear that you are stepping down but I think you know what's best for you. I'm glad that you won't be leaving. I hope that Clomid does the trick this cycle.
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October 23rd, 2008, 10:04 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
Posts: 15,407
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oh jennifer 
im so so sorry sweetheart. my heart is breaking for you right now. im praying the clomid works for you first try hunny but i totally understand how you are feeling.
its one thing seeing someone step down because of being pregnant but i would really hate to see you step down because you are not 
please take a couple of days to think about it before you jump to a decision 
we love you hunny and no matter what position you are here, as long as you are here in some way then we will love and support you the best we can.

xx
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October 23rd, 2008, 10:40 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: MA
Posts: 15,169
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I'm sorry for what you're going through! It would be sad to see you step down, but you need to do what you feel best. Good luck with everything!
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October 23rd, 2008, 11:13 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Indpls
Posts: 2,517
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Jennifer I am so sorry that it feels as if life is giving you a raw deal right now. I can understand your feelings behind stepping down but it does sadden me a bit.
Just remember, you are a part of this family and you are not allowed to leave!
I really hope come the end of this cycle you are greeted with a surprising yet wonderful well deserved BFP!
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October 23rd, 2008, 12:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 11,084
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Don't gooooo!!!!! You have to stay!!!!!!!
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October 23rd, 2008, 06:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Southern Iowa
Posts: 22,472
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I hate to see you stepping down, but I totally understand how you are feeling right now. If you need to talk just let me know.
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October 23rd, 2008, 07:09 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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Jennifer you've gone through an awful lot lately and I understand why you want to step down. Please don't leave us altogether though! You were a great host!!
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October 24th, 2008, 12:06 AM
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♥KaLeNe♥
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Posts: 2,262
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Hi Hun!
Firstly  to you. I completely understand your need to step down although I think your a terrific co-host!! I really hope things start to improve for you and the clomid works and gives you that BFP.
I am so sorry your going through such a hard time...life just isn't fair or easy sometimes  .
Chin up Sweetie. xx
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October 24th, 2008, 07:14 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 7,264
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I'm so sorry you are going through such a rough time. We all can relate!!!! So you're amongst people who totally understand how you feel. I hope you hang out here and post along side us!!! BIG BIG HUGS TO YOU!!!!! I hope you feel better soon. Let us try to help!!!!
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October 24th, 2008, 08:35 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: baltimore md
Posts: 637
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I'm so sorry you are feeling down. You do what you need to do and you KNOW we are here, waiting (not so patiently)for you to come back.
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October 24th, 2008, 08:43 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: MN, but missing WI
Posts: 537
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You're an amazing lady, Jennifer and I totally respect that you'd like to take a break form co-hosting. I'm glad you'll still be around, though. I pray that the clomid does the trick for you and that you get your little miracle too.
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