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November 3rd, 2008, 04:15 PM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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im so so desperate to poas!!!!!
its stupid, im only 8DPO. i have another 8 days before af is due!
i was doing so well, i only peed on an opk 2 days ago (come on, i was going through hell and needed to do something  ) but ive been really sick today and my friend is trying to make me poas. talk about peer pressure!
please, help me convince her i shouldnt do it!!!!! its FAR FAR too early but what is making her bully me into it apart from the sickness is a very slight dip today and the fact i have a hpt in my cupbard that expires this month. i have more (including the other one from the twin pack i bought with my first loss  ) but this particular one i got from the doc when we first started ttc and it been sitting there since (i wanted to keep it to confirm a line if i got one on a ic ) but its going to expire and she thinks thats a sign to use it!
please, tell her to stop pushing me into things i DOnt want to do
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November 3rd, 2008, 04:20 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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We all know it's too early, but I would do it if I had them. If you get a BFN you know it's just too early...no big deal. If it curbs the urge I say do it. Bad influence sorry.
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November 3rd, 2008, 04:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I agree, it's too early! Wait 2 days!
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November 3rd, 2008, 04:22 PM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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November 3rd, 2008, 04:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Okayyyy, wait 7! Next Monday, you better be testing for us in chat!
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November 3rd, 2008, 04:31 PM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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November 3rd, 2008, 04:35 PM
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Good idea waiting! I hate getting BFNs so I always wait until AF is ridiculously late before I test.
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November 3rd, 2008, 04:36 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Good luck and try to hold off till Monday!
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November 3rd, 2008, 05:35 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Step away from the sticks!!! It only makes you feel worse when u get a BFN cuz its too early!
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November 3rd, 2008, 05:40 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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ok, I felt implantation on a Monday night, Tuesday I had a temp drop and I got a super super faint Wednesday afternoon and another faint on Thursday, I didn't really believe it till Friday. So I say if your temps jump up tomorrow, Then the earliest you should test is Thursday, ok, maybe Wednesday. But not tomorrow, even if you are, it's too early for it to show.
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November 3rd, 2008, 07:44 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Good idea waiting! I hate getting BFNs so I always wait until AF is ridiculously late before I test.[/b]
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November 4th, 2008, 05:45 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Well, I'm no help. I'm also 8dpo and planning to go buy some dollar tests just to get the urge out of my system
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November 4th, 2008, 05:49 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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haha thanks alicia!
i have a couple of ic but i went to the loo so much last night i didnt know when my fmu was (the joys of staying in chat til almost 4am! ) so i had a good excuse not to test.
i think wed/thurs is going to be hardest for me cos me and mark are having "a talk" and i dont think it will go well so i know il want to poas so i find out asap!
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November 4th, 2008, 07:07 AM
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okay i hope this will help!!! i tested expired hpts last time i was pregnant and they worked JUST FINE!!! so the need to use the test now because it is going to expire is OUT THE DOOR!!!! LOL
seriously, it is too early for a bfp now. don't waste the test!!! do what i do, hide the tests and then forget where you've hidden them!!!!!! i do that more than i'm willing to admit!!!!
loads of baby dust at ya girl!!!!  in truckloads!! G/L and KUP. I can never make chat so i'm just gonna have to wait - heavy sigh!!!
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November 4th, 2008, 07:53 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am also no help.. I tested at 8dpo, I just could not help it
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November 4th, 2008, 08:18 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Ok Sarah...slowly back away from those test....
I would also wait it seems kind of early to test now either way, so you would be just wasting them.
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November 4th, 2008, 08:25 AM
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LOL Sarah!!!! I know exactly how you feel!!!! When I was 8dpo (11 now) I went and got opk's and hpt's.. I JUST HAD TO POAS!!! So I poa opk! LOL... I did take an hpt at 9dpo and it of course was a bfn! way too early.. I am dying to poas again, but don't want to see another bfn, so TRYING to wait until at least Friday!!!
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November 4th, 2008, 08:40 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hmmm.... unless you plan to party or something yea, wait... knowing or not knowing isn't going to change if your or if you aren't....
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November 4th, 2008, 08:58 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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i know i know! 
i have been good. i counted my hpts today and i have 9 so theoretically i could test every day til af is due BUT i wont. i may very well use 1 before the weekend but thats it (and it would be a cheapie anyway )i defo wont be testing any time soon anyway cos im getting really crampy again today. i couldnt temp this am cos i didnt get 3 hours sleep
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November 4th, 2008, 09:29 AM
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just me
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I totally agree that you should wait. I have NEVER gotten an early bfp. Ever. So definitely wait!  You can do it!
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