Big temp drop and a BFN

AliciaF · #1 November 7th, 2008, 06:26 AM

I actually started to think I was out yesterday. I'm just not feeling it. My boobs are sore, but not as sore as they should be and it just doesn't feel right.

Then my temp dropped a lot today and I got a BFN so I think I'm out.

I am so upset about it, my due date is this month and I wanted to be pregnant on my due date, now that won't be possible. My boys are getting older and I'm supposed to have a baby for them this month but now it won't be until at least August and who knows if that will even happen, it just keeps pushing off another month and then another month. When do I stop and say they're too old and would be too far apart from another baby?

And, why am I having trouble now? 3 out of the 4 times I've been pregnant I've gotten pregnant the first time and 2 of those times were this year so I know it's not my age. The first time we tried it took 6 months but I didn't know what I was doing and had just come off of 5 straight years of birth control.

I'm just really emotional right now.

Mellza · #2 November 7th, 2008, 06:28 AM

the temp drop could be im. dip? I had two big temp drops while I was charting and conceived ds. I'm sorry for the BFN.

Danielley08 · #3 November 7th, 2008, 06:38 AM

Alicia...you just described exactly how I am feeling to a T...

My first 2 boys I got pregnant the first month trying...and my 2 losses this year were both the first month trying...so for this to be the first month trying and see that BFN and temp drop just makes my heart sink to the bottom pit of my stomach...

My first angels EDD is also coming up this month...its actually on Thanksgiving...

I'm here for you if you need anything...feel free to PM me...

AliciaF · #4 November 7th, 2008, 06:42 AM

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Alicia...you just described exactly how I am feeling to a T...

My first 2 boys I got pregnant the first month trying...and my 2 losses this year were both the first month trying...so for this to be the first month trying and see that BFN and temp drop just makes my heart sink to the bottom pit of my stomach...

My first angels EDD is also coming up this month...its actually on Thanksgiving...

I'm here for you if you need anything...feel free to PM me...

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My due date is the day after Thanksgiving

My boys are 6 and almost 8, now they'll be 8 and almost 7 before another baby would be here. I just wonder if it's fair to them to have a sibling that far apart. We put our life on hold to raise dh's sister for a few years and hadn't planned on another baby because we had our plates full with her and our 2 boys. But she decided to leave 1 1/2 years ago, we decided to try and now we're having problems. It's just really hitting me hard today.

madmum_sarah · #5 November 7th, 2008, 06:58 AM

darn it! ffs today is not a good day for bfps is it (i admit, i tested and was a bfn!)

girls.
xx

..Jessica.. · #6 November 7th, 2008, 07:22 AM

I'm sorry Alicia! I think it could be a implantation dip, and give it a few more days. I hope you get a blaring this month!

mary30 · #7 November 7th, 2008, 09:03 PM

I am with you too. With my three children and three angels I got pregnant on the first try and this month I really thought I was pregnant .Heck my boobs are still tingling and my AF is here. I do not think the age gap matters. <but that is me. My kids are 12 ,8 , and 2 the first are with my first husband and then Conner is with my Dh now. I never have any worries about them being close or anything. I probably would of stopped but Conner is my Dh first child and he would like to have more. Heck If I left it up to him I would be in trouble.

But the age gap is a personal choice. Like I keep telling myself We were very lucky to concieve on the first try so I am not giving up hope yet. I still want more children.

KDD · #8 November 8th, 2008, 01:22 PM

I'm sorry for the BFN Alicia. I thought for sure that I would be pregnant by my EDD too (today). I never thought that it would take this long to happen for me. I would have gone crazy long ago if it wasn't for everyone here.