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November 19th, 2008, 01:52 AM
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Hi Ladies,

I just thought I'd write and let you know that I'm still around (mainly in siggies r us)...I've been avoiding this forum as I just don't feel ready to return just yet. It's hard to read some of the updates...whether it's about a loss or a BFP I find them both difficult (please don't think I'm a bad person for that..I love all you ladies and wish you all every happiness but it's just hard sometimes). We had a break last cycle with no charting or anything and I was hoping that having less pressure might help but no...the witched showed up yesterday!

I just feel lost...like I don't belong anywhere at the moment.

I miss you all
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November 19th, 2008, 05:31 AM
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I don't know you, but I am so sorry for what you are going through! I hope you are able to find peace and strength through your trails and in time find your "place again!"
Blessings sweety!
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November 19th, 2008, 07:05 AM
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Kalene you have to give it time. The scares are still so raw.
I couldn't even THINK about TTC again for over a month.
I hope that you are able to get through this, if you need anything please don't hesitate to ask.
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November 19th, 2008, 07:29 AM
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I'm sorry you are having such a tough time, Kalene. Like Katie said, you need to give it time. You'll be back and in fighting form when you're ready.
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November 19th, 2008, 11:34 AM
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You know we're here for you Kalene, whenever you decide to return!
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November 19th, 2008, 11:40 AM
madmum_sarah's Avatar formally sarah_the_sane_1
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im sorry you are finding things hard sweetheart
i hope you can find the strength in you soon
xx
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November 19th, 2008, 12:05 PM
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November 19th, 2008, 12:07 PM
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Like the other ladies said, it all takes time, and even when you think youre ready, itll hit you again at some point. Take as much time as you need, and come back whenever you feel ready. Please know youll always have a spot here even if right now you dont feel like you belong. Once a TTCAL girl, always a TTCAL girl
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November 20th, 2008, 01:37 AM
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We all understand and everyone needs a different amount of time. Take yours.
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