[AliciaF]

Thought I'd share what I read the other day.

I know that since the 2 losses following Clark's death I've wondered how long I can do this, how long do we try, when do we stop. A sentence in a book really helped me ( Empty Cradle, Broken Heart ) Don't ask yourself when you should give up, just ask yourself can I do this one more time. That's your answer.

[KDD]

Thanks Alicia. That's a great quote.

[heathernoell6]

What a great quote. So true

[Momeejenjen]

Very very true! Thank you so much for sharing!

Something I have been telling myself...

"Is the final outcome worth everything in the end?"

I can say with out a doubt that I will do whatever I can to get to the point where I am able to hold my healthy baby in my arms... If I am told I have to eat nothing but bugs for 10 months straight while living in the forest sleeping on a bed of twigs... I'd do it. My DH fears definatly outweigh mine... he told me once "I don't know if I can watch you go through this again, I love you so much, I want a baby but seeing all the pain you suffered, I can't handle it."

I simply told him.. "I would go through this a million times, just to see you hold your new baby in your arms for the first time... to watch you cry those tears of joy when your arms are filled with the most special gift we can share together"

(*my DH only has our angel as his biological child, I can't wait to give him that joy, to share in it with him!)

[..Jessica..]

So true...