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November 20th, 2008, 07:21 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: McGehee, Arkansas
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Well I am officially done trying. I'M GIVING UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had another BETA done this morning and my number went from 134 yesterday to 1 today. I guess it was just leftover shot 14 days later. This is ridiculous and I'm tired of being heartbroken month after month. I'm tired of getting my hopes only to be heartbroken. I think maybe it's just not meant to be for us and maybe I should just accept that. I don't know when AF will show now. Today is 14DPO and 15DP the trigger shot. Of all people I had to be the one that had the shot in my system 15 days later. I guess I just have to accept it and move on with my life. I will check in on ya'll but I will not longer be actively TTC. I don't have it in me and I don't think it will ever happen so I'm throwing in the towel. I love all you ladies and thank you for being so wonderful through everything I've been through. I hope each and every one of you get that little miracle that you so much deserve.
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November 20th, 2008, 07:34 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so so sorry you are going through this  I wish I had some advice! I hope you are able to find the place where your heart can push through the pain! ((HUGS))
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November 20th, 2008, 07:43 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
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I can't believe that stayed in your system for that long! I'm so sorry to hear that 
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November 20th, 2008, 08:05 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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That's just the kind of luck I have. I truly think this is the time I have to just accept that it's not meant to be. I know that people try for years and years but I just don't have that in me. I don't think I can go through this anymore. We just got done with cycle 16 and I'm tired. I'm tired of trying and hoping and praying for something that is simply just not meant to be. i don't care that everything happens for a reason and I don't care that when the time is right it will happen, and I just don't care anymore. I see people come through the hospital everyday who don't have the means to care for a child, could care less that they have a child, teenagers pregnant because they were irresponsible and I'm sick of it. I'm tired of waiting for my turn and praying for something that is NOT going to happen.
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November 20th, 2008, 08:25 AM
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Im so sorry youre going through this I wish I could say, or do osmething to make it all better for you.
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November 20th, 2008, 09:00 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry you are going through this.....I wish there was something more that I could say or do for you.....I wish I knew what the right thing to say was...
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November 20th, 2008, 09:16 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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oh hun im so sorry
xx
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November 20th, 2008, 09:25 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry Jen!!!!
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November 20th, 2008, 09:29 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Im so sorry hun
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November 20th, 2008, 09:51 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: NWArkansas
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(((HUGS))) I am so sorry
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November 20th, 2008, 10:28 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry. I thought for sure it wasn't the trigger shot. They say when you stop TTC is when it happens. I wish there was more I could say. I am sorry doesn't seem to cut it. 
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November 20th, 2008, 11:01 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Jen I so sorry, this rollercoaster of TTC is sometimes too tough for all of us.
Please don't go too far.
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November 20th, 2008, 11:14 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry
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November 20th, 2008, 12:18 PM
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Super Mommy
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I'm really sorry you feel that way..............but I do too. Only mines probably age related. I kick myself over and over for waiting so long to TTC again. 
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November 20th, 2008, 02:07 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry hun
I wish you the best in the future and I truly hope that one day you get your little miracle <3
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November 20th, 2008, 07:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh man! That SUCKS! I am sorry it didn't work.
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November 20th, 2008, 07:21 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry Jen.
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November 20th, 2008, 11:05 PM
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I'm so sorry, it's just not fair. 
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November 21st, 2008, 07:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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jen, here we are in the same boat again... i went to 14DPO with NO spotting and HIGH temps, really high. I have never ever had a 14 day LP - EVER, except for when i was pregnant. i was convinced i was pregnant, convinced. took hpt, and BFN!!!! was crushed, absolutely crushed. AF showed the next day like she has never showed before. i thought the same thing you are thinking... i can't keep doing this. it's killing my spirit and it's hurting my life with my family!!! but i also can't give up for something i want so deeply. so maybe the answer is don't ttc, but don't NOT ttc. i'm thinking that is the answer for me.
I am so sorry for what you have experienced. that is so cruel!!!! i just want to hug you and cry with you. the kicker is i saw a television show yesterday about 13 children that were so abused by their parents throughout their lives. It was so horrific the things their parents made them endure. I cried like a baby as they told their story and i can't stop wondering how God works. there are so many wonderful people wanting to be parents, and can't make it happen. and then there is this satin woman who God blesses 13 times, who abuses each and every one of those blessing. I JUST DON"T GET IT!!!
HUGS, sorry to rant on your post!!!!
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November 21st, 2008, 03:58 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: central fla
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Jen I am so sorry (lynda too). I know exactly how you feel. I have been TTCing for #4 almost 2 years, I have lost 4 babies in that time. Including one pretty far along. This last lost almost did me in. I felt done, and PISSED off. It isnt fair. I dont understand why any of us have to keep going through this over and over again. I am a bit less bitter now, but terrified to TTC again. We didnt TTC this month but we didnt prevent. I was terrified through the TWW. I got a BFN and was actually relieved. I am so sorry, you are not alone.
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