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November 25th, 2008, 08:41 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hey ladies....can you excuse me for just a moment so I can scream at the top of my lungs?????????????
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
HHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !
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Ok!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks ladies. I feel a little better now. Anyways. On to my vent!!! I called the dr office and left a message with Stephanie because she seems to be the only one to know anything up there. I get a call back from Tammy and I tell her that I am 19DPO and I told her about my Beta's and she said that there were lab results in my chart that showed my progesterone level was 12.3 and there was a note to schedule me for a New OB appt!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELLO????????????????? WTH????????????? I just got done telling her that my level last Thursday at 14DPO was a 1. What part of that does she not understand??????????????? She said that I could come for an appt on Dec 11 and they would do an HCG then and we would go from there? I really wonder how some of these people graduate nursing school!!!!!!!!! I seem to know more than she does. They are trying to tell me that I am pregnant because I had a progesterone level over 11 which is what they want to see in the first trimester.......I know better though. I am just going to take a home test either this eveing or tomorrow morning and then when it's negative, i'm going to call them back and insist on them giving me something to make AF show. This is ridiculous. Sorry for griping and sounding so negative. It's just hard to get my hopes up once again and then turn around and be dissappointed. Anyway. That's the update for now.
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November 25th, 2008, 08:54 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Ohhh Jen, I'm sorry, I know how frustuating it is to talk to the nurses at the doctor's office when they don't listen to what you are telling them. I know you it's hard to think posistive, but keep an open mind until you get a neg result on your pg, she might have a point. I s till sthink it's weird that you are 19dpo and still no af, that's prety long.....Well I'm still praying for the BFP for you and I won't keep up. I hope you find out soon what's going on.
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November 25th, 2008, 09:09 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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oh hunny 
im sorry you are having trouble getting anyone to listen! maybe you will get a shock and get a bfp?  i sure hope so babe!
i would phone again if you dont. maybe if you keep annoying them they will start listening!
xxx
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November 25th, 2008, 09:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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You better go to the store RIGHT NOW and get a digi...that chick done pi$$ed me off and its not even me!!
I'm praying for you Jenn!!!
P.S. Is there any way you can call back and ask for ONLY Stephanie to call you back?
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November 25th, 2008, 10:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry. bad nurses suck
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November 25th, 2008, 10:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry! That does sound frustrating. Good luck!
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November 25th, 2008, 10:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sorry things are so frustrating for you
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TTC #3 after pregnancy loss at 13 weeks, 6 days
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November 25th, 2008, 11:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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You better go to the store RIGHT NOW and get a digi...that chick done pi$$ed me off and its not even me!!
I'm praying for you Jenn!!!
P.S. Is there any way you can call back and ask for ONLY Stephanie to call you back?[/b]
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Thanks Danielle. I am going to probably take a test tonight. It's Dh's birthday and a friend of ours birthday so we may go out and have drinks so I want to know for sure before I got out and have one. I just hate seeing BFN's even though I know the chances are slim to none that it will be a BFP. Thanks for the prayers. I am going to take the test and if it's negative, I will call Stephanie and only Stephanie back and ask her about it.
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November 25th, 2008, 12:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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that IS frustrating. I hate that they don't seem to know that waiting until dec 11 is an eternity.
good luck tonight!
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November 25th, 2008, 12:59 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Upstate SC
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I agree it's strange that AF hasn't came. Could they have given you the wrong results?
I'm holding out hopes for you.
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November 25th, 2008, 01:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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ugh, I'm sorry Jen! That really sucks!!! Those nurses need to go!
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November 25th, 2008, 02:34 PM
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Super Mommy
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Of course I want to think the best for you and say you're pg, but if you aren't, then I'd want AF to show too. Nothing like waiting around for AF to show when you know you're not pg and are waiting for another chance to try or at least not avoid.  And it would be a helluva lot easier to find out if your nurse wasn't a complete tool. I hate it when medical professionals don't listen to their patients.
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November 25th, 2008, 06:21 PM
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Super Mommy
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I am also holding out hope that you are pg. I hope your betas were wrong somehow...and that that nurse's husband gets a new job in China so she has to move away  Have you taken the test yet???!!!
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November 25th, 2008, 06:25 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Jennnnn! Did you test?!!?
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