[usmcwife1981]

I went for my checkup yesterday and didnt find out anything good or bad. The doctor mainly went over all the labs and tests that were ran and said that they had no explaination why the baby died. I think just knowing that is a good thing because atleast it wasnt something that was going to affect my fertility in the future, but on the other hand I'm very upset in thinking that I couldve done something wrong to have caused it. There was so many questions I wanted to ask but my mind went blank when I went in. He did answer all the important stuff though, without us even asking. We can try again, without waiting any longer if we feel emotionally ready. He does however want me to get AF first though. Since it did happen without a diagnosis medically we only have an increase in the chance it will happen again by 1-3 % I guess thats not bad but its still scary to think about going through it again. He also said that next time he will refer us to see a high risk pregnancy specialist. I just wish I knew the answer to why though. So I guess we will see what happens, and hopefully we wont have to try for very long but until then I get to go back to work today! Im super happy about that ,I really miss work! I cant believe I said that,

[..Jessica..]

I'm glad you had your appointment. It does suck that he didn't tell you why it happened, because now you're wondering if it's something you did...when it wasn't anything you did! I wish you and DH the best! I hope you see a beautiful really soon!