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November 30th, 2008, 01:43 AM
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So, when we went to friends house for Thanksgiving, a girl was dancing. I told Nelson ' She is pg', to which he responded 'no way, she is too young', to which I told him...I AM POSITIVE this little girl is pg. Turns out, she is 13, and due in July. She was playing with a tiny girl who turned out to be 18mos old and her little sister!!! I ended up talking to her, and according to her it was her 3rd time being sexually active, and she is freaking out. How unfair is the world??? I had two unexpected (and on BC) pregnancies at akward times in my life. Now, the first time I am stable and really want to be pg...NO LUCK!!! I really felt bad for this girl though, and angry and jealous at the same time. Thanks for listening
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November 30th, 2008, 01:55 AM
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i know that feeling well hun.
its hard when the world is so unfair but hopefully this will teach her to not be so silly. its going to be a huge change to her life thats for sure!
you will get your bfp soon hun. i just know it
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December 3rd, 2008, 03:06 AM
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i know that feeling well hun.
its hard when the world is so unfair but hopefully this will teach her to not be so silly. its going to be a huge change to her life thats for sure!
you will get your bfp soon hun. i just know it [/b]
Thanks Sarah. Just such a silly world isn't it...
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December 3rd, 2008, 05:32 AM
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As I have said before, I work in Labor and Delivery emergency room at the hospital, The other day I went into the room to interview the patient and the girl was 14, thats not the worst part. She was pregnant with triplets!!!! She had no boyfriend there, no mom, no dad. This girl truly was alone. I felt so bad for her. It is not unusual for us to see 13 and 14 year olds in there, the youngest I have seen was 9. It truly does make you think what the h*ll is going on!
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December 3rd, 2008, 05:34 AM
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OMG! 13 & 14! TRIPLETS?!!?!? My wordddddddd!!!!!!

I pray God gives them the rest of their lives easy, I'm sure they were just ignorant to the whole "I can't get preggo, I'm too young" thing.

It's unfortunate...
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December 3rd, 2008, 10:15 PM
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When I was in high school, so maybe nearly 20 years ago, my neighbor (11) got pregnant. She went on to have a boy. Unfortunately the baby daddy was 20 or so. But instead of having him arrested the girl's dad made her move in with the baby daddy to be cared for by him and his guardian (I think it was the grandma). Then my sister's friend at age 14 (I was 19 or 20) got pregnant. She was a beauty queen, so I'm sure that didn't hurt. Her parents ended up taking care of the baby. Unfortunately the parents got divorced, the g'ma started working at a 99Cent store to support this kid, but no sign of baby momma or daddy.

Today I saw a young woman (22-24) with two kids probably under 6, and severely pregnant. I know you pop more on the 3rd, but this was at least 6-7 months. Both kids looked to have different dads (blonde light girl, black haired darker boy, and a blonde "light" mom). It just makes me soooo mad.
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