One whole year

#1 December 1st, 2008, 09:30 AM

Well we're onto the 12th cycle TTC. I never ever ever in a million years would have thought I would be waiting this long. Crazy. And if I don't get pg within the next couple months, I would be having a 2010 baby! Bizarre

And to add insult to injury, my neighbor (the family I used to nanny for) just found out she's pg again, she's due in July. For some reason this news killed me. Her other child is about 14 months, so I knew another baby would be coming soon, but it's like come on woman, another one, when I took care of your baby for 50-60 hours a week. It's just not fair. Not to mention she is the whiniest person ever. Kinda like me right now. lol

So that's my update. What a Debbie Downer am I huh???

jenn27 · #2 December 1st, 2008, 09:34 AM

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Well we're onto the 12th cycle TTC. I never ever ever in a million years would have thought I would be waiting this long. Crazy. And if I don't get pg within the next couple months, I would be having a 2010 baby! Bizarre

And to add insult to injury, my neighbor (the family I used to nanny for) just found out she's pg again, she's due in July. For some reason this news killed me. Her other child is about 14 months, so I knew another baby would be coming soon, but it's like come on woman, another one, when I took care of your baby for 50-60 hours a week. It's just not fair. Not to mention she is the whiniest person ever. Kinda like me right now. lol

So that's my update. What a Debbie Downer am I huh???

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Hey girl. Thanks for the update. I'm so sorry that it has taken so long. I definately know how you feel. Just please don't give up. After 16 months I was ready to give up and then it happened. I will be praying daily for you and DH and I hope you get a wonderful Christmas surprise. Keep us posted and keep your head up girl. Your time is coming soon. I just know it.

madmum_sarah · #3 December 1st, 2008, 10:04 AM

i was ttc for a year (16cycles) and i swore it would never happen but then look

ok, not the greatest timing in the world but hey, im pregnant so not complaining
you will get there hunny i just know it so please dont give up
xxx

Wee3monkeys · #4 December 1st, 2008, 10:05 AM

I'm sorry things haven't been going very smoothly for you this year, hun!!!

After this cycle will your doctor be intersted in helping you at all? Don't they say after 12 cycles they usually will? You're in my thoughts, Erika, and I hope we're seeing your beautiful bfp before too much longer!!!!!

Mellza · #5 December 1st, 2008, 11:40 AM

I hope you get a bfp soon!

LifeToTheMax · #6 December 1st, 2008, 11:41 AM

You have every right to be a whiner right now, that's what we are all here for! I will keep praying that you get your BFP soooooon!!

katiegirl · #7 December 1st, 2008, 11:44 AM

Believe me I understand exactly how you are feeling I am right there with you.
I hope and pray you get that BFP and a 2009 baby.

Momeejenjen · #8 December 1st, 2008, 11:50 AM

aww

just sucks.. I know

I really hope you get a BFP soon... will you seek medical assistance if it doesn't happen soon?

~Laurie~ · #9 December 1st, 2008, 01:08 PM

Awww, Erika, you aren't a Debbie Downer. TTC is not for the weak of heart. Has your doctor talked to you about it at all? Good luck, girl. I am so hoping you get your BFP soon.

#10 December 1st, 2008, 01:46 PM

Thanks girls. I don't know what a doc would do at this point. I just turned 25 so I'm not at that point where they need to rush things due to age. I went to an obgyn in August and told him we had been trying, he did an ultrasound and he said everything looked beautiful. THe only thing he said he would try is to do the HSG, but from the ultrasound it looked like everything was perfect. My next step is to have DBF have an SA done.

We haven't done temping or charting, I kinda go buy CM and O pains. I think I am just missing it or something. And of course when it's mid month, that's when DBF is away for work or sick or not in the mood. This has got to be my month b/c I will be at the end of my cycle on Christmas. It just has to be it!!!

..Jessica.. · #11 December 1st, 2008, 06:26 PM

Erika!!!!!

This cycle has to be the one, girl!!!!

HippyMomOf4 · #12 December 2nd, 2008, 10:43 AM

Have you tried OPK's? You chould be a early or late ovulator and just be missing that window. Sometimes women can have fertile CM a few times in a cycle. I would try OPK's and maybe temp for 1 month to see when you ovulate. Good luck girl

kingdink · #13 December 2nd, 2008, 11:15 AM

I hope this is your month too!

~Lynda~ · #14 December 2nd, 2008, 12:39 PM

hey there girl. i'm right there with ya!!! i hope we both get our Christmas miracles!!! everyone tells me that i'll appreciate it more, having not had it come easy... boy are they right!!! HUGS, and I'll be praying for you!!!

Jason'sMommy · #15 December 2nd, 2008, 05:52 PM

I can't imagine how frustrating that must be- I tried for 9 mos. w/ my first and it felt like forever. You're in my thoughts for a Christmas BFP! Hang in there!

klt · #16 December 2nd, 2008, 06:42 PM

Okay...I just thought I posted here and it didn't show up. I hope I didn't do something wrong. Definitely could happen.

Anyway, Erika, I truly hope that you get your BFP and have a happy and healthy pregnancy. A December BFP and a 2010 baby sound perfect. Praying lots and sending BFP wishes your way

kelty

klt · #17 December 2nd, 2008, 06:51 PM

Ahhhhhhhh! A December BFP and a baby in 2010!!! That would NOT be perfect. That would be one heck of a long pregnancy. Sooo sorry. My first post had it right (I think) I have PG brain and we're not even trying yet!
Sorry for the typo.
Hoping for your beautiful little miracle in 2009!
kelty