Well no go on last night DTD.. or today!!! Today is my peak day, and if we DTD today it says the outcome is "best".. right now I'm at good. I am so angry at DH right now I could I am holding back the tears as I type! But that is fine... we'll see how he likes the "denial" game when he is wanting it! Two can play this game.. I might take a break from the boards.. I am so so so hurt, angry and upset right now! I don't think he even cares!!!!

[madmum_sarah]

oh sweetheart!
im so sorry he didnt take part this cycle. i guess all men have a time when they just feel "not in the mood" just like we do, its just unfortunate about the timing.
maybe he is anxious about ttc or being used for "deposits"
please dont disappear hunny. i pray things work out for you even if you dont get to dtd today

xx

[Momeejenjen]

aww sweety! I don't know the complete situation but I know from what I read that you are hurting and angry! Keep your head up hun!

Thank you Sarah... I don't know what is wrong with me!!! I think timing wise was okay for , but it's just this whole thing of wanting a boy really bad.. I'm still crying.. He does feel like he's being used for "deposits".. ###### that "sperm meets egg" plan!!!! there were a good 3 days worth wasted that I could have probably used here instead... oh well.. If it is meant to be, it will be.. Thanks for the hug.. I'll stick around, I just might be crying a lot for a bit! At least until I snap out of this! He left for work, and won't be back until late tonight... by then it is too late anyway! TCOYF says I o'd today, but I had horrible cramping during chat last night, and by 11pm it was gone.. nothing today.. it's because of the 2 days of opk's.. anyway.. thanks!

aww sweety! I don't know the complete situation but I know from what I read that you are hurting and angry! Keep your head up hun![/b]

Thank you Was just trying to time DTD to conceive a boy, and we totally missed it.. perfect for girl timing (which I would still love, just wanted to add another boy to our family), but by the time we got to this "date" that would be best, hubby was already burnt out... Really a turn off for him! I want one, he doesn't really...

[madmum_sarah]

just a thought hun but have you ever noticed hormonal changes when you O?
i only say that because the last few cycles i was trying, around O i was a bloomin wreck and went off for the slightest thing.
i hope thats the case for you too and that you can smile again real soon.
and hey, dont worry about crying, we have all done that on here, me more than most
xxxx

[~Lynda~]

the whole ttc process is so stressful. i know how you feel. i try so hard not to make my dh feel like a "depositor" if you will. so i pay special attention to BDing even when it's not O time. But then when O time comes around, he'll fall asleep early. I don't let him get away with it though - LOL.

I hope you feel better soon!!! i do know a woman who was trying to have a girl and she was using the timing method to do that too, and she had a boy. so i don't think there is a huge science to the gender/timing method. G/L

[azura24]

My situation is a little different. It is soooo reversed! I feel like the trap. DF turns me down most the time all up until its time to o and then he wants it like crazy! He wants a baby so bad and he like (not stalkishly) monitors my o days and things. I dont get it really, I mean I really want a baby but if only we could do it other days too.... Im sorry you are having such a crap day, I hope that your DH can feel a little better about the situation and you get your BFP soon. I understand how frustrated you must be...it will get better...

I'm so sorry Steph! Believe me, I've been there with DBF, stupid men

[BellaBellski]

awwe I'm sorry hun But like someone else said, I don't think it's an exact science, I think it's just a 50-50 chance.

Thanks girls! You all are THE best!!! I feel a tiny bit better...

Sarah = This is my first cycle after having my IUC removed, so I have no idea if this is normal for me! I am hormonal, so probably normal in the sense, that my body went w/o o'ing for so long, that it hit me like a ton of bricks! HA!

I did see a few charts earlier that resulted in 's as well as boy gender, that looked like mine.. so we'll see I just wanna be pg, and have a healthy baby! Like us all

Luv ya girls!
Steph

[..Jessica..]

I'm so sorry Steph! Believe me, I've been there with DBF, stupid men [/b]

I'm sorry girl!!!!