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December 3rd, 2008, 08:41 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
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i feel so numb, stupid, scared, guilty!
i had bleeding yesterday and day before. by last night i was spotting and again today but the cramps im having are pretty bad and getting worse.
i saw my health visitor who rushed me to see doc and he says unfortuately he thinks im lossing the babies 
i have to go back at 10am tomorrow and see how things are looking for getting a scan to confirm it but it looks like my twins are gone.
i cant even cry right now!
anyway, i will update you all when i can. im still praying this doc is wrong again (same one as told me was eptopic) but with the pain im in, i just dont know what to do/think/say.
right now im blaming myself for moving furniture around last night but its been going on longer than that
xxx
i called doc today because i hadnt heard anything and he said i had to wait for midwife unit to call but they want me for a scan on mon or tue. i asked what was going on and he said he couldnt tell me. i asked again saying "i know something has come back because if this was a miscarriage like you stated (not my own doc) then i would not be involved with maternity" 
apparently my bloods showed that in general I am ok and that there has been a "significant rise" in my hcg (he didnt say how much) but stated it wasnt as much as he would like to see with twins 
im still confused because its been over 2 weeks since i was there so there is obviously going to be a big rise in hcg anyway but right now im praying that they are still rising and at least one of the twins is growing. it means i have to play the waiting game again all weekend but at least im holding on to a glimmer of hope. still trying not to get too excited though
thanks for all your thoughts and prayers girls
xxx
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December 3rd, 2008, 08:45 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Honey, I pray that the doctors are wrong and those babies stick in there. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Whatever happens Sarah, do NOT blame yourself. I love you girl!!!
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December 3rd, 2008, 08:48 AM
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Super Mommy
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I hope they're wrong, sweetie. I'll be praying for you hard today. 
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December 3rd, 2008, 08:53 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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December 3rd, 2008, 09:00 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I really hope the doctor wrong!!
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TTC #3 after pregnancy loss at 13 weeks, 6 days
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December 3rd, 2008, 09:10 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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oh Sarah,  I hope this doc is wrong, I'm praying for the twins to be ok.
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December 3rd, 2008, 09:18 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Sarah, I know it's easy to blame yourself but please remember that it is NOT your fault.
I hope and pray that the doctors are wrong and the twins stay put.
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December 3rd, 2008, 09:20 AM
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OMG Sarah :/!!! I'm praying for you!!! I hope the doc is wrong again!!!! !! Try to take it extra easy today!!!!!!! KUP!
Steph
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December 3rd, 2008, 09:27 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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December 3rd, 2008, 09:32 AM
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Super Mommy
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o sarah, i hope the doctors are sooo wrong! Good luck and take it easy...
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December 3rd, 2008, 09:37 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry! And I hope they are wrong. I will be thinking of you!
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December 3rd, 2008, 09:52 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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You'll be in my prayers Sarah! I hope they are wrong.
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December 3rd, 2008, 10:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Aww hun, I am thinking of you, I too pray that the doctor is wrong!
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December 3rd, 2008, 10:09 AM
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Veteran
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Oh no, I'm so sorry!!! I will be praying the doc is wrong again. And if he is, I say get a new doc, hon.
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December 3rd, 2008, 10:27 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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oh, Sarah I am so sorry hunnie I hope that the dr is wrong and your little beans are okay
You're in my thoughts!
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December 3rd, 2008, 10:42 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh Sarah, I hope the doctor is wrong!!! I am soooo sorry. I will keep you in my T&Ps!!!!
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December 3rd, 2008, 11:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sarah,
Jessica was at her training this morning, but I knew she would want to know what was going on, and I didn't want her annoyed w/ me for not telling her. I waited till after her orientation was over to fill her in. She asked me to relay a message to you...
She says to tell you that she's saying prayers for you and the twins, and hopes that the doctors are SO wrong!
Sarah!!!!
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December 3rd, 2008, 11:12 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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SARAHHHH!!!
I'm gonna pray soooo hard for you that the docs are wrong!!
PLEASE PM ME IF YOU NEED ANTYHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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December 3rd, 2008, 11:34 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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thanks for all the messages girls (including you jess.)
im still feeling pretty numb. i feel so sorry for shane right now, poor guy is trying so hard but just doesnt know what to do or say. bless him!
i have now locked myself in my bedroom. i have 2 kids in bed and the other is at youth club tonight til 9. i havent told them anything because i dont want to do it until im 100% sure in my own mind. im 90% sure but there is that little bit that is still praying (that would be the little that is still throwing up!)
its just typical of my life i guess, just as something starts going good (shane) something bad knocks me all out of sync!
anyway, im having an early night tonight, i just want today to be over with.
thanks again girls. this is why i never left this board, its my home!
xxx
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December 3rd, 2008, 12:24 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Those doctors are WRONG Sarah!!!! No way, not fair, not happening!!! You are NOT losing these babies!!!!
I'm saying so many prayers for you, be positive and think nothing but happy thoughts. Do not give up on these miracles!
Love you Sarah!!!!!
P.S. Thank you Jen for posting for me and letting me know!
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