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December 6th, 2008, 09:40 PM
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... and got a digital YES!! I haven't been on much the past couple of days because I'm out of state at a wedding I was in today (my 2 year old was a ring bearer- so cute!). Anyway, after 2 recent losses I am terrified and gearing myself up to start bleeding any minute. I'm too afraid to get excited until I've heard the heartbeat. I feel really bad for the women that got BFNs this month- hang in there, your time will come! I will be staying on this board for awhile, I think.
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December 6th, 2008, 10:10 PM
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Don't feel bad for us...it just wasn't our time. How exciting for you, congrats. Just hang in there until your 1st appt that swoosh sound will be amazing!
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December 7th, 2008, 12:40 AM
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ahhh congrats!!! xx
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December 7th, 2008, 02:23 AM
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 congratulations!
i know you are scared hun but please, try and wake each day telling yourself you are pregnant and enjoy it for all you can 
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December 7th, 2008, 04:18 AM
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Congratulations
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TTC #3 after pregnancy loss at 13 weeks, 6 days
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December 7th, 2008, 04:47 AM
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December 7th, 2008, 05:30 AM
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December 7th, 2008, 05:48 AM
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Congrats!
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December 7th, 2008, 07:16 AM
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What wonderful news.. I agree You should take it one day at a time . That is what I am doing and it seems to be helping a little. You are always going to be worried.
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December 7th, 2008, 09:35 AM
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I know this is easier said then done, but take your pregnancy one day at a time. That's what I've had to do and I've felt so much better. I stopped checking TP for spotting or anything else unusual. I've also had two losses and so far, so good!
Here is some sticky dust for you!
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December 7th, 2008, 10:55 AM
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 Congratulations!
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December 7th, 2008, 12:35 PM
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December 7th, 2008, 02:47 PM
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Congradulation!!!
~*~*~*~*~*~ Sticky baby dust coming your way!
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December 7th, 2008, 03:36 PM
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Congrats!!!
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December 7th, 2008, 03:51 PM
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You ladies are the best!! Thank you so much for all of your support. My hubby and I are being cautiously excited- really trying not to get our hopes up because it's so hard to be disappointed. My fingers are crossed for BFPs for all of you who are trying.
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December 7th, 2008, 04:36 PM
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Aww I know how you feel. I've only recently found peace with my loss in March and amazingly I am super excited about this pregnancy and not worried at all. I don't know how that's possible, but it's true.
My husband, however, is really scared. He keeps saying I need to be worried, too. I think he's just worried I'm going to be absolutely devastated if we lose this one. I probably would be, and rightfully so, but I also think I'm better able to handle that sort of thing now than I was in March. Plus, my line is like 20 x darker than it was in March... maybe that's stupid, but it's definitely helping me feel relaxed lol. I still tested twice, though...just to be sure!
Anyway... just have some faith because no matter what you do, what's meant to be will be. That's like my mantra these past 9 months..."What's meant to be, will be." (((hugs))) I hope you're able to be ecstatic about this pregnancy soon!!
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December 8th, 2008, 07:04 AM
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Congratulations!!! That is very exciting news! I'm so excited for you!
Kelty
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December 8th, 2008, 08:24 AM
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Congrats!!!! Just hang in there and all will be ok!
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December 8th, 2008, 12:24 PM
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Congratulations to you!!! those digi tests are beautiful...did u take a pic?
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December 8th, 2008, 12:38 PM
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Congrats
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