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December 17th, 2008, 09:59 AM
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Well, I had my hopes really high that I was pregnant. I just got in the shower and my af began. I think, I'm pretty sure. I'm about 100% it is bright red blood. I wanted to be pregnant really bad and I think I was just seeing signs that weren't there. I guess I'm shooting for September now. I just feel so let down and drained. Well, maybe this cycle and I will be cleaned out and hopefully carry better. I should have not gotten my hopes up and not tried this month. Well, this month my cycle was 26 days, so hopefully the next one will be the same, so my husband will still be up here.

I'm trying to stay positive. The other day I had a tiny clot, but nothing after, today the same thing, except a couple hours later af. So I'm guessing today is CD 1...ugh...this long wait. I hate this long wait and more bd'ing...ugh. Love my husband, but after staying home with the kids all day, I really don't feel like it, but I take one for the team.
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December 17th, 2008, 10:09 AM
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aww I know how disappointing it can be.. but I'm in the boat with you!! We are both shooting for Sept now, maybe.. just maybe we will be in the same DDC together
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December 17th, 2008, 10:11 AM
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OH, I'm so sorry. I know you were really hoping for that BFP. Hopefully now your cycle will be back to normal, although don't be surprised if it's not. Mine is driving me NUTS
The New Year will be here soon and I'm hoping your get your BFP really fast!


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December 17th, 2008, 10:12 AM
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Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry. How can you not get your hopes up after you think you may have gotten a BFP. I wonder if it was another screwy +/- test, I have heard of other people who have had problems with certain brands. Man, that just sucks. And I totally understand not being in the mood after a day of watching the kids. Usually I just want to crawl in bed for an hour and watch Gilmore Girls to decompress. Do you use OPKs? Maybe that would make it easier to pinpoint your days and then you would know when to really focus your energy. I'm glad your cycle was relatively normal though and hopefully the next will be too. G/L and I'm sorry this wasn't your month.
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December 17th, 2008, 10:35 AM
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I used OPK's this time, but it was the first time I ever used them and I really don't understand them. I'm going to try charting my temp and OPK's I just have to figure them out. And get a thermometer haha...that would help. I just figure that maybe it just wasn't my time. I always got pregnant ASAP and now it is trouble, I just don't think I O'ed this month like I thought.
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December 17th, 2008, 10:37 AM
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It's so hard not to get your hopes up when you are TTC. I'm sorry this was not your month, I'll keep my finger cross that you will get that BFP next month and have a sept baby.
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December 17th, 2008, 11:42 AM
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December 17th, 2008, 05:33 PM
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I'm sorry girl!

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December 17th, 2008, 06:06 PM
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So sorry hun. I always hate it when SHE shows up. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
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