I am so sad right now.... I can't believe this!!! I hate the Mirena.. will NEVER get it ever again!!!! I had blood done on Monday, due to spotting on Sunday.. Well I called today (doc didn't even call me, I had to call him!!!) and the nurse called back and said that I am to stop taking the progesterone, because I am going to miscarry! (I have told EVERYONE, I am so embarrassed!!!!) From when I ovulated, I am 16/17dpo (maybe 15 but that would be it), she wouldn't tell my my numbers, just said they were extremely low, like if I was 1 to 2 weeks pregnant... I go back tomorrow to see if they are doubling... if not enough, then she said I am to plan (even now) to miscarry... I already spent $120 on clothes because mine weren't fitting... but all my symptoms have gone away, and I am aching a bit... I can't believe this! I don't want to miscarry! Hubby will most likely not want another one, so this was a blessing to me! I made some bad choices recently, so I guess this is punishment for what I've done! I guess testing at this point wouldn't really matter would it!? The doc was saying that Sunday could have been implantation spotting.. so is it possible I'm not as far along? They are going by my LMP which was 11/13, and I didn't ovulate until CD 18 or 19..


Stephanie

[Danielley08]

What a stupid nurse! Unless your beta was already <5 she cant tell if you are going to miscarry!

PLEASE try to stay positive...I'll be praying for you!!

[kingdink]

Get a second opinion or something because it sounds like that office sucks!!!. And why on Earth couldn't she tell you YOUR numbers?

Don't be embarrassed, you can't help when these types of things happen. I am sorry you are going through this and I really hope it's not a m/c. I'll be praying for you!!!

[..Jessica..]

I'm sorry Steph!!! I agree with Danielle, she can't tell you those things!!!

This is NOT your fault!!! Don't give up!!!

[L-SBB]

oh Steph Try not to worry until you get the 2nd round of results back....you've been around long enough to have seen PLENTY of stories from others where a nurse (or a doc) told them to expect to miscarry and they DIDN'T...keep hoping (we will be for you)!!!!

[heathernoell6]

Please try to stay positive. What a horrible doc office . I am sooooo sorry they are doing this to you. I hope you find out soon that they were just morons. {{{{HUGS}}}}

[KDD]

Stephanie, whatever happens, you did nothing wrong. Don't beat yourself up. I agree with the others, that nurse shouldn't have told you that.

[katiegirl]

With everything above. Wait and see what the results are, regardless of the outcome it is NOT your fault.

[klt]

I am so sorry you have to go through this...but don't give up hope yet! Danielle is right, unless your hcg is less than 5 they can't tell that you are going to miscarry, unless you have already had a Beta Hcg done and there is a decrease. Hang in there. And, if your doc is wondering if you're not as far along as you think you are, maybe you should ask about stoppping the progesterone? Sounds like you need to avoid talking to that scary nurse. don't give up yet. KUP
Thoughts and prayers coming your way

[madmum_sarah]

oh stephanie.
i really think you should get another opinion. i was told i was losing my babies just because i was spotting and ill and they were wrong. they can not possibly tell you that you are about to miscarry.
please girl, dont give up hope, il be praying for you
xxx

[Momeejenjen]

I agree what a crappy office!!!! Keep your head up hun and don't lose hope! I would get a second opinion. can you go to another OB?