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December 29th, 2008, 03:25 PM
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So after my m/c 2 weeks ago....I told myself I was going to wait 3 months to TTC again. My 30th birthday is in March, so I told myself I wanted to get in better shape, do some things for "me", give myself time to heal, and be able to drink on my birthday!
But now I just want to be given the okay to TTC after AF comes in a few weeks lol We'll see what my Dr says Wednesday I guess.
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December 29th, 2008, 03:27 PM
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I understand exactly what you are saying.. Dh and I had decided to wait until Aug of 09 to try again.. that lasted for 2 weeks...
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December 29th, 2008, 03:35 PM
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Hmmm...I'm torn.. 
DO IT NOW!!!!!!! 
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December 29th, 2008, 06:33 PM
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like i always say, why put off till tomorrow, what you can do today??? did I say that or did someone else? hmmmmmmm
G/L I hope you don't wait, cause i secretly want to be in a ddc with you again!!! ok it's not secretly!!!
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December 29th, 2008, 07:19 PM
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I don't blame you for not wanting to wait!
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TTC #3 after pregnancy loss at 13 weeks, 6 days
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December 29th, 2008, 07:52 PM
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I definitely understand....sometimes you feel totally different just cause the sun is shining that day...or something random. Good luck!! When can you start?
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December 30th, 2008, 05:38 AM
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like i always say, why put off till tomorrow, what you can do today??? did I say that or did someone else? hmmmmmmm
G/L I hope you don't wait, cause i secretly want to be in a ddc with you again!!! ok it's not secretly!!![/b]
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LOL that would be awesome. I hope we can take a bunch of others with us too! 
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I definitely understand....sometimes you feel totally different just cause the sun is shining that day...or something random. Good luck!! When can you start?[/b]
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I go for a follow up tomorrow. I'm pretty sure he'll say we can start when AF comes, but he did say he'd do some tests/bloodwork (I don't know the details yet), so I don't know if we'd have to wait another cycle because of that.
You ladies will be the first to know though!
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December 30th, 2008, 08:48 AM
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I so understand. I go back and forth daily on whether I want to ttc again or when. I say do what feels right and go for it! you can always drink on your 31st birthday hehe.
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December 30th, 2008, 09:00 AM
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I so understand. I go back and forth daily on whether I want to ttc again or when. I say do what feels right and go for it! you can always drink on your 31st birthday hehe.[/b]
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30!! Don't be adding a year!!
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December 30th, 2008, 09:02 AM
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I so understand. I go back and forth daily on whether I want to ttc again or when. I say do what feels right and go for it! you can always drink on your 31st birthday hehe.[/b]
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30!! Don't be adding a year!!
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No, I meant since you wouldn't be able to drink this birthday (30) then you can always drink at the next one (31) lol. PS- What's wrong with being over 30? I'm almost 34 and feeling better every year. Well, aside from the bones cracking haha.
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December 30th, 2008, 09:06 AM
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I so understand. I go back and forth daily on whether I want to ttc again or when. I say do what feels right and go for it! you can always drink on your 31st birthday hehe.[/b]
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30!! Don't be adding a year!!
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No, I meant since you wouldn't be able to drink this birthday (30) then you can always drink at the next one (31) lol. PS- What's wrong with being over 30? I'm almost 34 and feeling better every year. Well, aside from the bones cracking haha.
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Ohhhh haha Gotcha! Yeah, if I'm not pregnant by March (either by not trying or just haven't gotten pregnant) I'll use the "at least I can drink" excuse...but I'm pretty sure I'll want to try sooner than that.
I joke about it, but I actually don't care much about turning 30. It's just another year as far as I'm concerned.
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December 30th, 2008, 09:10 AM
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Ohhhh haha Gotcha! Yeah, if I'm not pregnant by March (either by not trying or just haven't gotten pregnant) I'll use the "at least I can drink" excuse...but I'm pretty sure I'll want to try sooner than that.
I joke about it, but I actually don't care much about turning 30. It's just another year as far as I'm concerned.
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I'll be thinking of you, whatever you decide. Only you know what feels right for you! Happy New Year Christine!!
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December 30th, 2008, 11:04 AM
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I know exactly what you mean, after my chemical pg on 12/18, i said I give up and cant go through it again and here I am now, waiting to O...
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December 30th, 2008, 02:04 PM
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Right after my M/C I thought that I never wanted to go through that again. But time heals and I was ready to TTC again within a week.
Do what feels right. Remember 40 is the new 30! Of course, I'll be 36 in March!
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December 30th, 2008, 05:20 PM
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My birthday is in March too. Woohoo for March birthdays!
I know I was so up and down during the 4 months I was on bcp between delivering Cora and officially TTC again (the first cycle TTC was unsuccessful). I think it's normal. Good luck deciding, and I personally hope you're pregnant on your birthday!
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December 31st, 2008, 06:32 AM
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I say do it.... there is ALWAYS a reason to wait, but you'll always want a baby.
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January 1st, 2009, 11:40 PM
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Christine...GO FOR IT!!! I just turned the big 30 in Aug. I feel so much younger. If you feel like you are emotionally ready- GO FOR IT!!! I really hope that we are close by in MA! I would love to get together and introduce our babies or measure baby bumps later this year  Good luck with whatever works for you!
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