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January 9th, 2009, 09:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Ok. It's only cycle 3 but $@$*! I'm soo sick of BFNs! I just want to be pregnant so badly!! I hate this 
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January 9th, 2009, 10:00 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I understand sweety... I actually cried today... I am supposed to be pregnant right now, I'm not, and I am dealing with AF. It's so hard to be happy when you keep facing those stupid BFNs!
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January 9th, 2009, 10:04 AM
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Raising Little Marines
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I'm right there with you guys. I just want to be pregnant so bad. I was supposed to be getting ready for my baby in the hospital with a mag drip or maybe even holding him right now. It will all work out for us.
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January 9th, 2009, 10:40 AM
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I guess you just have to have faith. Although I don't have much of it anymore. One of these days I'll have a baby!
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January 9th, 2009, 01:01 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I just wanted to come over and tell you to hang in there. I lost my 3rd pregnancy and it took about 8 months to finally conceive again and that was after several rounds of Femara and IUI. It wasn't til I took a break one month to have my husband have some SA done and we weren't really trying and we conceived.
I remember getting so frustrated and so sad... really depressed over the entire deal. It was no fun anymore and DH and I were really loosing all interest in each other cuz we were so stressed out over the entire deal!
Just have faith and keep something special going between you and your spouse.
Keep your head up.. it will happen.
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January 9th, 2009, 01:19 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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yea, i'm on my fourth cycle since my m/c and this is our 12th cycle since we started trying. so i'm right there with ya. so sick of bfns and af showing her ugly face. hopefully it won't be much longer for us ladies!!!!
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January 9th, 2009, 01:57 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I hear ya! I told DH today that I quit, I don't want AF no more. He apparently thought i was being funny and started laughing at me. I should be finding out my baby's sex now not bleeding from the nether regions.
chris
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January 9th, 2009, 02:31 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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It sucks to have so many wonderful ladies there with me feeling the same frustration - but at the same time, I'm so glad I have you all. I don't know where I would be without JM. Thanks for all the support and kind words, ladies!  I decided I'm not going to buy anymore HPTs until I'm at least CD 31-32. I'm gonna try to not pay attention to TTC and just try to enjoy sex again. I've been pretty caught up in TTC. Maybe if I just relax and try to have fun it will happen. Ugh. I don't know. I'm scared I wont have any more babies
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January 9th, 2009, 03:01 PM
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I just wanted to say hang in there, it will happen for all of you girl. I know it's hard to stay positive when all you are getting are BFN, but have faith that it will happen. Also have some fun while TTC, otherwise it will became a chore and might not make things between you and dh all that great. Good luck to all of you girls, I know I don’t know most of you but I do know how wonderful you all are.
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January 9th, 2009, 07:49 PM
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What I love about JM is that you all understand. If I was to tell my friend about my BFNs she give me "advice". I never thought it would take us this long to get pg again, but here we are in the middle of cycle #9!
I hope we all get our BFPs soon!
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January 10th, 2009, 12:34 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I dont have many words of wisdom, so I thought Id just give some instead It sucks, I know it does, but eventually we will be happily pg again.
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January 10th, 2009, 05:39 PM
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It's horrible for sure.... especially when you think of the "could have beens"
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January 10th, 2009, 07:42 PM
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Veteran
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Oh hun I hear ya. I wish I had the magic wand. I just got af also and was very late. I was peeing on a stick everyother day just to be sure. They she showed up. I wish I could give you a hug in person. Maybe just having fun and not thinking about ttc will result in a very fast BFP. I'm gonna keep my fingers crossed for you.
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January 10th, 2009, 08:40 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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January 10th, 2009, 09:18 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I justed wanted to give you a big
I understand the fusteration and pian I lost my lil one at 17w then a early loss in Nov. It has been 1 yr since we started ttcing for our next with 2 loss's
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January 11th, 2009, 03:03 AM
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Super Mommy
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Ok. It's only cycle 3 but $@$*! I'm soo sick of BFNs! I just want to be pregnant so badly!! I hate this [/b]
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I understand!!! It seems like every time I am feeling better, BabyCenter sends me an email that says...You are 16wks pg! Today it was 17wks!!! I had tried to cancel, but apparently not. I thought this would be a piece of cake. I can't believe that next month will be a YEAR of ttc!!!! Sorry, kindof went off into my own little rant. I hope that you are pg this month! Good luck and lots of thoughts and prayers!
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