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January 19th, 2009, 05:57 PM
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Waiting patiently....
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Hi Everyone!! I'm Stephanie, married to wonderful DH for 1 year & 7 months. We got pregnant last year rather quickly, I had one normal AF after being off of BCP for 10 years and was pregnant the in June, my LMP was 5/31/08. In July I had some spotting, so we went to the Dr. and found out I was pregnant with twins!! It was so awesome! There were some initial problems, but towards the end we were told everything looked great and we were excited that everything was fine. On November 8, I went into pre-term labor and the Dr.'s at the hospital couldn't stop it. I gave birth to my 2 angels on 11-9-08. I was 23 weeks pregnant. Neither of our girls survived. This is a much longer story, but don't want to depress everyone. Our loss is the most heart wrenching ordeal I have ever been through. I really do wish my girls were here with me, but God has a better plan for them. Which I've learned is good. I feel good that they are watching over me everyday.
So to move on to today, the baby fever is taking control!! I can't stand it any longer. When I went for my PP check up at the GYN, they found 2 cysts on my left ovary and have be on BCP for 2 months and I was talking to DH and telling him that I can't take it anymore. I want a baby!! I asked him if he would care if after this AF if I didn't go back on BCP if he wouldn't mind? He said "Do what you want, I want a baby too. I just want to make sure everything is good with you, that you are healthy before we move on." I explained to him that the cysts on my ovary is nothing to worry about, one is stationary and not growing at all and the other one is an ovulation cyst that comes and goes every month. He said, "Fine." So I think we will be TTC really soon!!! AAAHhhh... I'm so excited.
Anywho, I'm excited to be here. I'm actually excited for AF to come and to go so I can be pregnant!! I hoping it happens rather quickly again.
Thanks for reading!!
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January 19th, 2009, 06:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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Welcome to the board, Stephanie!
I'm very sorry to hear that you lost your twin girls, Kayla and Kaitlin.
My heart goes out to you!!!
I hope you stick around!
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January 19th, 2009, 09:06 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hi I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet daughter's
This is a great baord and the ladies here are wonderful! I hope you see a sticky BFP soon!
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January 19th, 2009, 09:39 PM
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Super Mommy
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Welcome to this board. I hope you love it here and never want to leave...even after you get your bfp! I am Heather, in love with Nelson. We have been trying for our first together since Feb 08, my 3rd. We suffered a loss in Oct at 6+weeks. I am so sorry about your loss. I look forward to getting to know you better. Welcome again. 
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January 19th, 2009, 10:28 PM
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HI there, I'm so sorry for your loss.
I will keep you in my thoughts and hope you aren't here long.
Jenn
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January 20th, 2009, 06:29 AM
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Welcome Stephanie! Sorry seems such an inadequate thing for me to say when you've lost your twin girls, but I am so sorry for your loss
This group of ladies is really wonderful - I know you'll get tons of support as you brave the TTC journey again! Where are you in your current cycle??
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January 20th, 2009, 08:14 AM
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Welcome Stephanie! Sorry seems such an inadequate thing for me to say when you've lost your twin girls, but I am so sorry for your loss
This group of ladies is really wonderful - I know you'll get tons of support as you brave the TTC journey again! Where are you in your current cycle??[/b]
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Let's see, in my current cycle, I just ripped (literally) ripped my birth control patch off!! I should be getting AF in the next day or two. If that stays true, I should O beginning of February, and be pregnant shortly after that. That's my plan actually. Of course, I'll keep everyone updated.
Thank you everyone for the warm welcome!!
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January 20th, 2009, 09:55 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Spring Hill, TN
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Welcome, I am terribly sorry for your losses. I can't even begin to imagine!
I hope your TTC journey is short and successful! 
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January 20th, 2009, 10:03 AM
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soon to be mommy of four!
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Welcome Stephanie! I can't even imagine the pain you went through losing your beautiful twin girls, my heart goes out to you. I lost my third baby at 6 weeks (last month), and I think I may be pregnant again, but not sure.
Wishing you lots of luck and baby dust!!
anna
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January 20th, 2009, 10:29 AM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Colorado
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HI! It's nice to meet you, I just wish it wasn't here! I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you get your BFP soon, and have a H&H 9 mos.
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January 20th, 2009, 12:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Just wanted to add my welcome! And I am so sorry for your loss of your little girls.
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