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January 20th, 2009, 02:24 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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I had my appt this morning and got the worst news of my life, our little boo no longer had a heartbeat. The SCH was over 50% of my placenta and even though boo was a fighter could no longer hold on. I go in tomorrow sometime to have a D&C. I'm so upset that this happened to us again. Everything was going great and then this. No words can express how i feel right now but i wanted all you to know how much it meant to me for all the prayers.
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January 20th, 2009, 02:31 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry. SCH's are the worst thing 
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January 20th, 2009, 02:44 PM
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I am so sorry. I know I still remember that moment my Dr. told me there was not heartbeat....it's crushing. Please know you are in my thoughts, HUGS!
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January 20th, 2009, 02:48 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry Denise!
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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January 20th, 2009, 02:52 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Oh Denise, I'm SO sorry!
Being told we'd lost the hb was the worst moment of my life...and I know how devastated you are. We'll be here for you - stay strong..you will get through this.
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January 20th, 2009, 03:14 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I responded in PAL, but I wanted to say how sorry I am, I can not believe this is happening to you again, I'm so heartbroken. I'm here for you if you need me.
lots of hugs
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January 20th, 2009, 03:24 PM
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TTCAL Co-Host
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I am SO sorry. Unfortunately too many of us have heard the words "there is no heartbeat". It is something you can never forget. My heart is broken for you. I will be sure to pray for you and your family. I am sorry that you are having to go through this.
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January 20th, 2009, 03:29 PM
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Raising Little Marines
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I'm so sorry and that news is so crushing. You will be in my prayers and thoughts.
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January 20th, 2009, 03:30 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately this is one of those things that anything can be done about. I am glad you got to see the h/b though. You know you are farther than before and your little bean was fighting... Perhaps you can take solace in that... your little bean did all it could to try to beat unbeatable odds. I have hope that if you can get past the pain to TTC again, you can be successful and have a happy little healthy baby 9mos later.
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January 20th, 2009, 05:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Denise im so sorry. Ill keep you and your family in my T&P. This is so unfair
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January 20th, 2009, 05:33 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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January 20th, 2009, 06:01 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry.
I just don't understand why stuff like this can keep happening to people so much.
I wish you a speedy recovery.
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January 20th, 2009, 06:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry Denise!!!! 
We're here for you when you need us!
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January 20th, 2009, 06:57 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry Denise! I wish I had the words to make you feel better.
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January 20th, 2009, 08:03 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Denise, I am so sorry! I can't imagine how you're feeling. I can only remember the awful feeling I had when they told me there was no longer a hb. I'm sorry I don't have the right words to say. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and so is little boo. Please take care and know that we're here when you need us.
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January 21st, 2009, 05:02 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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my thoughts and prayers are with you. i, too, remember how horrible it was to be told there wasn't a h/b. BIG BIG BIG HUGS TO YOU!!!!! if you need to vent or cry, please let us help!!!
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January 21st, 2009, 06:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry. It just isn't fair is it...
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January 21st, 2009, 08:05 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm really sorry
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January 21st, 2009, 08:17 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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ugh. That is no doubt one of the worst things you can hear. I'm sorry you're going through it!
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January 21st, 2009, 09:19 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Denise,
I am so sorry.
I cant believe this has happened to you again. Your post brought me to tears I was not expecting this.. so sorry hun.
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