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January 24th, 2009, 11:18 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Texas
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OK I know I know...I'm the one who NEVER tests early, and resolved to test absolutely no earlier than 1/31 (AF is due ~ 1/28) but I'm experiencing temporary 2ww insanity and I'm suddenly DYING to POAS. Yes, DPO10 is too early...but there's tomorrow AM, DPO11, and that *could* work, right? 
Someone stop me before I waste one of my lovely expensive digis on this whim!!! FF is advising me not to test until DPO18 (that would be 2/1) so I really *should* wait until at least next Sat...
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January 24th, 2009, 12:09 PM
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Tristan's Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: TN
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well...i got my last BFP at either 10dpo or 11dpo, and it wasnt FMU either, so...I am going to be of NO help to discourage you!
I am a POASaholic - sorry! I POAS daily trying to get a BFN so I can find out when I can O again after m/c.
Whether you decide to wait or not, I hope you get your BFP! 
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January 24th, 2009, 12:22 PM
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Hi-Tech Hippie
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Richland, WA
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Girl, you posted in the wrong forum to get POAS avoidance help! I got bfps with both my pgs at 10dpo, so I am no help either. good luck avoiding! Maybe you should hit the $ store so you can satisfy until you can use your good tests. 
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January 24th, 2009, 12:49 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 3,594
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I got a BFP on a digi at 9DPO... 
But if you will TRULY get discouraged if you see NOT pregnant...then DO NOT TEST...
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January 24th, 2009, 01:07 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2008
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I got my last BFP at 11DPO but As a PP said if you'll be too upset at seeing a BFN don't do it!
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January 24th, 2009, 01:10 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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You have to remember I tested at lik 5dpo or 1 dpo, depending on whether you go by FF or gestation size. I tested like 5 times before I got my  and then like 4 or 5 times after that.  Most were cheapies or at least cheaper. Want me to send you some dollar tests?
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January 24th, 2009, 01:54 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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You can't honestly think I'd tell you not to test, can you? No way, I'm an addict. And, if I have to get my fix by having you POAS, then so be it! LOL OK, I'm just kidding.
If I were you, I'd tell myself not to use the expensive ones and I'd go out and get the $store cheapies. I would not let myself POAS until I had the cheap ones. That would deter me, at least until I got to the store.
I know, I'm of NO help. But, know that I'm thinking about you and praying that you get your BFP! How are you doing? Any symptoms?
Fill me in. And, WELCOME BACK!
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January 24th, 2009, 02:00 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: MA
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I'm not going to pull you away from the tests either. My first BFP was at 10dpo on an FR and it was very very dark. But...don't do it if you have the willpower to wait, I just don't think I would!
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January 24th, 2009, 02:40 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Location: Texas
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So I tested...used a FRER I forgot I had but result was definitely a  Not even the vaguest hint of a line...but I think I've unleashed a POAS monster now (DH, not me, but possibly also me!) so I'll buy a multi-pack when I go to the store tonight I can continue the insanity tomorrow with FMU!
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Under The Sea Savannah!
Remembered Forever with Love
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10/18/2011 (@8w5d)
2/12/2012 (@4w3d)
~It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious. ~ Oscar Wilde
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January 24th, 2009, 03:52 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry about the BFN. I hope you get a tomorrow when you test!
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January 24th, 2009, 05:56 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Somerville, Ma
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Well, there are a lot of monsters out here! lol I am sorry it was negative, but I will keep watching to see what happens tomorrow and the day after and the day after that
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January 24th, 2009, 06:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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for most women 10dpo is too early!!!! 11 can even be early. statistics show that most women get bfp on 12dpo. I was a big chicken when it came to testing, and didn't test till 15dpo. G/L with the retest and KEEP THE FAITH!!!
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January 24th, 2009, 08:45 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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I'm so sorry about the BFN...FMU might be a better idea. I can just picture you and hubby strolling down the aisle, looking for multipacks!  Date night!
Anyway, I hope tomorrow brings better news...like a BFP!!! KUP and G/L
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January 24th, 2009, 09:59 PM
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Hey Lara, I'm sorry it was BFN but it is still early girl! SO I think my DH has POAS fever. He bought more for me and had me do one tonight. I'm 8DPO and it was BFN just as I expected. I've only ever tested positive at 10DPO. Anywho, I"m not feeling very positive at this point and I"'m dreading MOnday because I just have a bad feeling about this cycle. I"m hoping you get a BFP next test!!!
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January 25th, 2009, 12:45 PM
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Raising Little Marines
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: North Carolina
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Sorry about your BFN! I would try tomorrow, I'm a POAS addict and I was testing daily, because I just can't help it. I even went out last night and bought more, just to make sure the line was getting darker. Paranoia!
Keep us updated!
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January 25th, 2009, 06:16 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 11,084
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LARA!!! Do NOT test!!!! A bit late now...you pickle!
Wait a few more dayyysss plllllease!!!!!
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