[dragonfly2006]

hi everyone, sorry i have been MIA lately.. work work work is all i do. anyway im really having a hard time the past few days. i thought for sure i was pregnant...my symptoms were out of control and i felt i was then AF showed and was the mother of all AFs. It took me 2 years to get the baby i lost so how long for this one??? my dr. willnot do any testing right now because "now we know you can get pregnant" whatever im tired of waiting and hoping...sorry im down guys just wondering if im one of those who are not ment for children... everyone keeps saying chill out it will happen blah blah blah but what if im not ment to have kids..i know several couples that dont have children and not because they didnt want to. i feel like my family and friends are wondering whats going on...they always ask " when are you guys gonna have kids" it was easy for all of them...whatever..

[*SamF*]

Happy to see your back!
I know how hard it is to hear the “so when are you having kids?”. And the ‘just relax…..” People don’t realize that for many of us it’s not that simple. I go back and forth between wanting to cry and wanting to slap them.
Have you thought about going to an RE? I know I can get pregnant, I’m just having issues staying pregnant. Mine was able to diagnose why, and hopefully fix it. Plus DH’s results weren’t as great as we thought they were going to be. It does give us hope though that we will get there.
Or you may want to look for a Dr. who is more understanding that you tried for 2 years before your pregnancy, if you can’t do the RE yet.

I really think all of us here are meant to have children, and will get there. Try to stay positive.

[klt]

Glad you're back. I'm so sorry you're having a rough time. You will be a great mommy some day... and I hope that some day is soon take care! And, what about a 2nd opinion??? might not hurt. lots of hugs and bfp/sticky dust

[tobynscarlett]

I am so sorry. I know this is hard for you. Is it possible that you could seek a second opinion? I don't know about you but if I find a doctor that I don't care for much I will drop them like a hot potato in favor of a doctor that will honor my small requests (like noninvasive tests). If they can just draw a little blood or test some urine just to make ME fell better then what is the harm??? THEY may not feel it is necessary, but if I feel it is the there is no reason for them to deny my request. I know this has to be frustrating for you, I hope you get some answers or a BFP very soon!!!!

[..Jessica..]

I'm so sorry Stephanie!!!!

I hate feeling the way you are, and I'm sure we've all felt that way at some point!!!