[AliciaF]

Because I was told it pissed her off when I asked how she knew it was a chemical....

http://www.justmommies.com/boards/index.ph...owtopic=1452426

[..Red..]

I don't see anything wrong. However, as we all know how difficult losing a pregnancy is, it just may be that she felt that you didn't care or didn't believe her. Can you imagine believing someone didn't care or didn't believe that Clark was important, mattered, or something? Totally not true, totally unrealistic it might happen, but at the time, I'm sure someone could have said something that may have hurt your feelings. I don't know about anyone else, but I know I experienced it. (Like my dad using my loss to get a discount on a gym membership. - That was hurtful!) Anyhow, no you didn't do anything wrong. Does that mean a wrong didn't happen? Obviously not if she is hurt. My suggestion is to let her know how sorry you are for her loss, and for the misunderstanding.

We may not be doctors, but combined we have been through a lot of things. It is helpful for clarification so we can better share our stories. I know I put my foot in my mouth all the time trying to understand things better. It happens. We apologize (or we don't). We move on (or we don't). But I think we can all agree that we would much rather be somewhere other than this board and later a regular DDC then PAL. But we can't change the past, some of us would never want to, so we just do the best we can.

Good luck in whatever you decide to do.

[..Jessica..]

If you pissed her off, then I did too. Because I seconded your question regarding how she knew.