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February 16th, 2009, 03:33 PM
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I had my D&C on the 3rd of Jan at 10 weeks. My Doctor said we could start TTC as soon as I stopped bleeding... I was so sure I was pregnant because I felt the exact same way I always do when I am pregnant, right down to the weird back pain I get ONLY when I am pregnant. My tests kept showing up negative though! So today (Almost 6 weeks since D&C) I have started spotting.... AF is on her way!
I am SO SAD! DH said if we didn't get pregnant this month, then he wanted to wait a few years to try again... I wasn't ok with that, so we compromised at trying again in Jan 2010 (and be on birth control pills until then...)... But I am really not ok with that either! I want to be a mommy! We have been actively trying for 2 years and not avoiding since we got married over 4 years ago! We've had 4 miscarriages and 3 chemical pregnancies (that I know of) I was hoping I was pregnant this time so I wouldn't have to wait a year.... I just want a child!
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February 16th, 2009, 03:48 PM
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 I am dealing with some disappointment in that area myself right now. It really sucks!!! I am so sorry.
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February 16th, 2009, 04:05 PM
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I'm so sorry  . You will have a child soon! Don't give up hope!
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February 16th, 2009, 04:15 PM
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I'm sorry
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TTC #3 after pregnancy loss at 13 weeks, 6 days
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February 16th, 2009, 04:35 PM
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I'm so sorry
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February 16th, 2009, 04:50 PM
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I'm sorry as well Any chance you can get DH to reconsider timing on TTC...does he understand just how important it is to you?
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February 16th, 2009, 05:01 PM
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I'm sorry as well Any chance you can get DH to reconsider timing on TTC...does he understand just how important it is to you? [/b]
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I think I will talk to him about it tonight...
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February 16th, 2009, 05:29 PM
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I'm sorry honey That must be so frustrating!
How did your talk with DH go?
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February 16th, 2009, 05:31 PM
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I'm sorry sweetie for all your losses, I hope it happens for you soon and you and your husband can reach an understanding.
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February 16th, 2009, 06:35 PM
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I'm so sorry!!!
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February 17th, 2009, 03:15 AM
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I'm sorry too. I hope you and DH can come up with a different compromise that involves a baby sooner...
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February 17th, 2009, 07:05 AM
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Let us know how your talk with DH went. I'm sooo sorry about your losses. I hope you are able to come up with a plan that works for both of you and brings you a beautiful little baby!
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February 17th, 2009, 07:41 AM
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I'm so sorry
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February 17th, 2009, 08:14 AM
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Im sorry to hear that sweetie..
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February 17th, 2009, 09:53 AM
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Just wanted to give you !! Dont lose hope!!
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